i feel obliged to let you in on a lil secret good people...
sr won't work if you're sexually repressed. meaning, don't hesitate to glance at that ass in the grocery store but don't be a freak about it either and let it take up your entire headspace. i know i'm gonna be called a jew/shill or whatever but it's the only way to actually make progress in your life. you're not above lust, you have to integrate it but not let it consume you instead of your purpose. been trying on and off for over 5 years already and so far this has been the only method to work for me. you're not above lust nor are you a saint if you deliberately don't entertain sexual thoughts. they're still there and will bite you in the ass if you keep letting them fester in the back of your mind believe me. got a job, cuties fawning over me, making new frens, actually feeling like i'm going somewhere in life for fucking once. don't look at porn of course that's a no brainer but feel the lust and let it drive you, it's actually amazing once you strike that balance, can't really express it with words.