Tldr should I try dating men who only share hobbies with me that I am not that interested in?
To explain, my main interests are tistic music stuff since that is atleast a media you can always consume, but mine are kinda too niche so i am thinking should I try to talk to men who are I to interests I am mildly in like I guess lolcows and language/philosophy (I am less into language and philosophy since they are more deppressing so lolcows would be a better bet). But idk if that will work since I am way more interested in music so if the guy doesn't have that I feel I will still not be attracted to talking to him/unable to connect. I guess I can only answer this question since at the end of the day it is about my feelings but would love to hear your input

I didn't want to reproduce before but when I fell in love with my first boyfriend who btw fucked me over. I felt like wanting to give kids to him even though he didn't ask or even want iirc.
But reproducing as a woman is risky cause if the man leaves you are fucked and also I don't want to be a working mom I want to stay at home with the kids which I understand is alot for some men to accept

Tldr I kinda thinking of kids but don't want them if the father leaves