> Lost my SWE job in the Bay Area
> Got another job in Seattle
> Wife works as LVN making ~80k
> Wife initially agrees that I take our kid, but she insist to stay
> Marriage not working since 2024
> Apartment lease ends and she threatens to live in her car
> She lives with her friend
> She wants divorce
> She sues me for Domestic Violence, Divorce and emergency child return
> Her salary can't pay shit in the Bay Area, I can afford supporting everyone here
> I offer her to move in, live in a separate room, I pay her expenses
> She admits her job is easy and she doesn't want to change it.

She cheated in the school that gave her the diploma, I was helping her passing exams with ChatGPT.

I think if she lost her job It would be easier for me to convince the judge that our son should stay with me.

How do I make her employ