>>81929951
>if you settle for someone just because of their personality without any physical attraction that's not being unshallow, that's just being desperate.
I was going to come shit up the place but honestly this has changed my mind. You are 100% factual here, everyone online who says this never lives up to it, good on you. However, you must also admit that this makes you categorically a volcel, not incel. Realizing this gave me a lot more confidence when choosing partners, so hopefully this will do the same for you. Good luck in your quest for love!