>>76329505
>Your problems are mostly mental. Raised by a single mom or an absent father, and that's why you never learned to think and act like a man.
How do I actually fix this though? I feel like I've just been pretty dull, low energy and antisocial my entire life, like I was born that way. I have been diagnosed with aspergers which is probably true but I've heard of people with this who still live pretty normal lives.
>get a job
Been juggling jobs since I left school, never enjoyed anything, I don't have a dream job and I only have my current jobs because it's tolerable and low stress
>get a degree
I'm too dumb and it costs money and I don't know what I want anyway
>just go outside
I do, but I'm not social so I go alone in the mountains and stuff
>be a passport bro
I've talked to women from many different countries over social media, sending pic, sexting and stuff like that and many want to meet me irl, but I honestly can't be bothered and many want me to come but I just can't bothered, I hate traveling and especially flying.
>go to the gym
I have for the past 3 years but I don't like it that much. Rather play videogames

I envy those people who can just do shit and have motivation to do said shit, I feel I've been trying to be normal and live a normal life all my life but nothing really changes.