Has /fit/ finally given up on the "men peak in their 30s" cope?
overall (career, wisdom/physical capabilities alignment, learned what works for them, etc.) 30s is arguable, but you have to have made some decent choices up to that point. As far physical capacity, physical attraction, and overall ceiling (like a 20s millionaire is more rare and more desired than a 30s millionaire). 30s is past that prime.
>>76324044 (OP)Matt Forney is morbidly obese, bald, and doesn’t work out
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>>76324059Most men are losers.
There is no “peak.” If you were born attractive and fit, then your looks start fading by age 35 but you can stay fit through.
Majority of men go nowhere in life except make money at best and marry a post wall female.
>>76324044 (OP)Born a loser, always a loser.
Having a career and $ doesn’t change anything.
>>76324044 (OP)I'd like to see a picture of this guy, no reason in particular.
>>76324044 (OP)>things he posts about are the age he got laid the most, banging thre girls a day in the philippines, and some chick remembering his name, then talking about enjoying the girls in your 20sits so sad how addicted to women he is
>>76324044 (OP)I unironically lived thru hell in my 20s, i was fat, unhygienic, poor and felt borderline retarded. Im 33 and im on my best feezik, i dress nice, ive been told i look younger, got money, car, and higher quality bitches to fuck. Im feeling stronger and mentally sharper than ever, i can even banter about random shit to normies and strangers, i even get shamelessly and recklessly hit on and complimented by random people from time to time, i get a few matches on dating apps even on hardcore nonpayed shadowghosted mode. Lifes good. Planning to hop on TRT when i hit 45 tho, i dont want the mr bones ride to ever end.
>>76324080>higher quality bitches to fuckits so sad how loser guys try to act like a player or something
>>76324080Does it ever cross your mind girls just see you as a beta buxxer? Like I dont get it. If no chicks liked you when you were 0-21, what makes you think you are actually attractive? Girls just see you have a job and career and are stable now, so they are attracted to that.
>>76324083Dont say that. A player is something you are not something you do. Not him btw. I just dont want to start are flame war. This is /fit/ and we are all at least in the top 10% in the west when it comes to fitness.
>>76324089It's always been sort of surprising to me as well. Not just for a guy who was a loser all his life then suddenly gets money/career and now the women want him. But even for a guy who was succesful and women just want him for his money. Like, I get being an older guy in your 30s or beyond, and talking about how you only want to fuck/date women 25 or younger, of course. But these guys actually think these women are attracted to him because he's "attractive", or because he's "strong", or his "personality is good", or his "sense of humor", or some other bullshit. Like they just completely ignore the fact that the reason younger women want older men who are successful is literally just to use them as an ATM, provide them financial stability, and possibly divorce rape them in court and be sure to get child support so the woman can later on raise the kid alone and be safe financially, or even marry a guy who isn't some old guy creeping on her and still be financially safe.
>>76324044 (OP)Matt Forney has always been a fat, ugly, bald manlet, so even his claims of "college pussy" are specious. Right now, he's an obese lolcow shilling for Middle East warhawk bullshit that would have flown in 2005 at best.
If you stay in shape, take care of your hairline, and work on a career, you'll be okay.
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>>76324089Ive seen dudes who were once attractive lose all of it by not keeping up with exercise and not even getting to the point where they make enough money to just live decently. I can see somebody also turning it around to be less of a loser, but they'll carry the scars of the loser years and they'll also be late to the game.
>>76324044 (OP)It's definitely a cope, you are absolutely not 20 anymore and it isn't comparable, but the losses are offset by new old man strength, patience, and wisdom if you didn't waste your 20's. But because 99% of men failed to even take care of themselves, it feels like the end of the world.
>>76324089The opposite, I was a loser betabuxxer in my 20s who didnt lift and got walked on. At 30 I got shredded, started being a zero fucks given sleaze with flirting, and went on a mini manwhore phase to get that shit out of my system. I pulled the most amount of girls when I was 31 and had to move in with my dad, lmao. I thought it would be a massive handicap, but I just told girls that I'm taking care of him due to a medical problem, and nobody actually cared. I definitely felt like I was too old for that shit when I was fucking girls in the back of my car like some teenager, so I finally started working on my career on got serious. Getting girls is so much easier than the dumb blackpill fags on here make it sound, but you just feel pathetic doing it past 30 with no goal of starting a family
>>76324083Im not a player by any sorts, i always focused on getting a serious gf. Never meant to larp as that. Its just that i went from fucking ogre mode landwhales in my 20s to semidecent looking chicks in my 30s
>>76324089Im always upfront about not being rich, my car is an old shitbox full of death noises, i dont wear expensive trademark clothes (thats being a tryhard bitch), i only pay for normal meals and occasional gifts if i think the woman is worth it. I dont go for obvious goldiggers, most of not all women i date insist even on giving me money for gas or feel guilty about me giving them gifts because i feel like doing it, some even get upset because i spend money on them. If you go for stereotypical instathots and wanna be pornstars you are just asking for trouble.
I'm someone who wasted my 20s and now I'm almost entering my mid 30s still at ground zero of life. Pretty much all my waking moments are spent lamenting and ruminating about how I've allowed myself to get to this point. It was just apathy throughout my 20s as every year passed by doing nothing. Then once that big 3-0 hit, it all came crashing down on me. The realization of what I had done. Where normal people spend their 20s moving out on their own, having lots of vacations and events with friends, having lots of dating and usually developing a long relationship that leads to marriage, massive career development and financial gains, finding themselves, developing themselves, becoming a successful person so they enter their 30s ready to face the rest of their lives.... hitting 30 for me meant coming to the realization that it was all over. That I was never going to be successful, never achieve anything, never have a family, never have anything. And every day for nearly three years, just thinking about this, 16 hours a day, from when I wake up until I go to sleep. Just always on either the forefront of my mind, or always running in the background so that as soon as there's anything that isn't distracting me, it immediately pops right into my mind.
>>76324143You unironically sound like you have mental issues and need help man. Nothing you're saying is rational. You can go get a cert or learn a marketable skill and still be on your feet in 2-3 years instead of constantly kicking your own ass. Stop taking life so seriously, we all fucking die and everyone out there is in their own heads as much as you are.
People get divorce raped, their kids stolen, survive diseases, financial disasters, etc... at ages older than you and turn it around. If you're just at square 1 and aren't loaded with debt, you can be further ahead in life than like 70% of people in their 40s who are debtmaxxed because their nagging wives made them spend money on stupid bullshit. Just go get an HVAC cert or some shit and start your own business and stop whining. Your obstacles are all phantoms you made up in your head.
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>be me 10-14yo
>get a lot of attention from girls in kindergarten and school
>my two hot cousins that was my age at the time (we were like 12yo) kissed me and let me touch her tits, ass and pussy
>hot blondie at school asked me to be her boyfriend but I was too autistic and didn't accept it
>another latina petite girl in school literally touched my penis middle of class while I was touching her boobies and vagene
>i was literally a chadlite
>fast forward few yrs I get extremely addicted to videogames
>toxic family environment didn't help
>drop out of school
>crippling depression for 7-8 yrs, I was 15-16 at the time
>get fat and disgusting
>I'm invisible to both women and men now
>life is miserable, want to kill myself everyday
>fast forward 5-6 yrs of NEETism
>find 4chan and Zyzz, eventually start lifting (at 25yo) because of Zyzz
>get leaner and in shape after 3yrs of lifting
>women now notice me and men respect me
Tl;dr this world is gay as shit, ty for reading my blog
>>76324138How'd u do it, anon? Where did you go exactly to meet girls? Did you roid?
Sick and tired of pretending life isn't complete fucking dogshit at 30 if you haven't made it. There's no turning it around at 30, it's done. No you don't age like fine wine, literally everything in your body is going to shit. Wrinkles add character? like fuck they do.
There's teenagers getting pregnant and you have to watch "charisma on command" youtube videos like people can't immediately see through that bullshit. Other 30yr olds are taking their kids to school and you can't even muster up the courage to talk to a woman. And it doesn't change either. You have to be born with that ability. You just can't be social awkward past the age of 25. Its a red flag.
Fuck the gym too. Any muscle you think you will gain could have been made in 1/3rd of the time in your teens. That's when it really mattered. Yeah having a good body at 30 is great but having it at 18yrs old is better.
Friends, if you still have them, wont be around that much. If they have kids, you are just a 3rd wheel and a burden.
"Just travel bro"
Fuck that shit. what? spend thousands to go to a place where no one wants you just so you can get overcharged at a tourist trap? Fuck off cunt. Think the locals give a shit about the millionth fuckin tourist taking up space?
Just sick of the lies.
>>76324164Just take roids at this point
>>76324044 (OP)I'm 36 and still full of energy to do whatever I want. Go to parties and be wild, go for a spontaneous trip in a foreign country, learn new skills, and so on. It's just I don't want or need that much anymore.
I guess working out, eating clean, and always trying to be better than my past self keeps me going.
Am I in my prime to physically attract teenage girls? Absolutely not. But as a human, and a man, I'm leaps ahead of me in my 20s.
>>76324187>Am I in my prime to physically attract teenage girls? Absolutely notSo what's the point in going on?
>>76324159Didn't roid. I got down to 10% and then clean bulked with people commenting on my progress about 6-8 months in. It doesn't take long before you get noticeable gaind and you get that nice trap ridge popping out of your shirt, you can mog 95% of men around you with less than a year of training.
I was a pretty big loser at the time, so I'd just drive around aimlessly and flirt with girls wherever I went, mostly grocery stores or box stores shopping for shirts. Get some arms that hug your sleeves and some vascularity on your forearms, and girls will start doing funny shit like following you down grocery isles and orbiting arond. They're pretty obvious when they want you to come say hi
>>76324150That guy is 35, with absolutely zero experience doing anything except shitposting on 4chan and playing video games. All his peers have 20+ years in the work and dating game, he has 20+ years experience jerking off to chinese cartoons and air frying tendies. This nigga was getting chicken tendies from his mama before air fryers even existed, and he was already in his 20s. It's fucking over.
>>76324192I still date 24-28 year olds, but after two marriages, I pick my women way more carefully now.
And after all, you have way more drive to actually accomplish big goals when you're single anyways.
>>76324204>36 double divorced on 4chan>haha of course i date 24-28 year oldssure bro.
>>76324207Yeah, I break a lot of hearts and not proud of it. 4chan is freedom, and that's what I'm all about my dude
it just depends on alot of things. like with olympic weightlifting, you have some guys make drastic gains between 16-20, set a wr at 20 and then never make any progress again and by 21 they are a retired athlete. you have other guys like xiaojun that made consistent progress from 19-37. at 37 he was still at his peak, setting prs and world records until he got banned. regardless, you should not be feeling like a feeble old man at 37 even if you peaked at 25. matt forney is just fat and VERY unhealthy.
>>76324164I've seen this before, is this a copypasta?
>>76324256I type it out each time bruv
>>76324237Lasha peaked almost right at 30. 2023 were his best lifts so he was 29 about to turn 30 later in the year.
>>76324256Are chimps in the wild agressive to humans? Like you hear those horror stories about them ripping peoples faces and dicks off but they are always chimps in a zoo or something. If you were in Africa or asia or wherever and encounter chimps in the jungle, will they be cool? I know only captive orcas have ever hurt people.
You guys post this every day, so I'll post this every day. Easy. Now, let the cope begin.
>>76324271The black guy is friends with that particular chimp from a young age from captivity, and reintroduced him back into the wild, and the chimp still remembers him when grown up and living in the wild for a long time.
>>76324259Coan peaked at 31. Haack is 32 and still peaking. Depends on how you define peak though. I'm sure most of these dudes were better looking at 23 and got more pussy.
>>76324256This faggot board has been a blackpiller hive filled with the most malevolent scum you can possibly imagine for years
>>76324044 (OP)>twitter>Bronze Age Pervert>"manosphere" fag whiningWhy did you make this thread?
im 43 and went on a multi year long bender the past couple years. sobered up and feel great. i work with mostly college aged girls and they usually think im in my 20's or slightly older. i think most of you are fucking pussies. waaah its over kys wimp
The guy in OP's pic is clearly going through depression and coping by trying to frame it as an age specific thing.
I think the important thing to understand is that as a man, as long as you are physically able to go out and work, exercise and do things, you can turn your life around, build value and shape a better future for yourself. Yeah, you're not going to have the same vitality and energy at 40 that you did at 20, but unless you are obese or disabled you'll still have more than enough to achieve much in life.
This isn't to say you should waste time and wait till you're older because you got time anyway, the earlier you start to build your life up the better. This is to say that if you wasted time when you were young, do not think it's over because it's not, you are a man.
>>76324314>Yeah, you're not going to have the same vitality and energy at 40 that you did at 20,Fun fact, the old hunters usually outperform the young hunters in stone age tier tribes.
>>76324044 (OP)I've been friends with forney and we are close to the same age. He is right that you should not waste your time and you should settle down. I let myself go and never really pursued anything substantial other than trying to get out of debt and get a comfortable life in my 20s. That is the biggest mistake because I could've done more and retreated into myself less because the dating pool now sucks with broken women in my 30s. On the flip side. I have had like 6-7 different women in the last year (Only 1 was fishing for my money) and that is more than I ever did before, it is just that most of them do not matter at all. If all you are interested in is unfulfilling sex and fun nights then it is totally possible in your 30s. I am largely at peace but just like in my 20s I don't really have someone to motivate me for growth other than myself and that is fucking tiring. I have only found 1 woman that I loved but she wasn't wanting to grow out of being broken like I am so it did not work out.
>>76324044 (OP)>brainwash yourself into being a dyel celibate retard at 37>actually men peak at 16 because Sam Hyde (another retard that ruined his body) said so!Fucking blackpillers lmao
>>76324197He needs to put his keyboard down and step outside. Baby steps like saying hello to old people working at hardware stores or something.
Most importantly, he should hire someone ro come slap him around a bit for being so whiney. Victimhood will kill him more than any of the other shit he thinks matters
>>76324192>So what's the point in going on?for you? none
i urge all the men that think like you to off
themselves when they reach 29 so they can rid us of these /fit/ demo threads
but you wont because you're a pussy
>>76324398Based demoralizer hater. I'm also extremely fatigued from them
>>76324044 (OP)>Moreover, I've slowed down MENTALLY. I find zoomers borderline incomprehensibleIronically, if you think being able to understand negrified zoomer babble is a worthwhile measure of cognition, that is, in and of itself, a sign that you are retarded.
>>76324044 (OP)You peak in your 20s, yeah, but that doesn't mean you can't get laid in your 30s. Loads of girls with age gap fetishes out there. LOADS
>>76324457I think the young zoomer mind really is alien to any older people. older, 25+ zoomers are just like a lamer pussier version of already lame millenials but young 17-19 year old zoomers are like an alien species. idk how just a few years can make an entire generation utterly alien and unrelatable to everyone who came before them but something happened. and it's not the internet because they are much more internet illiterate than me. they barely know how to do anything online. they can't even download a torrent. they barely know how to use google to find something. i have to school them just how to use google to find the best deals on some item they are wanting to buy.
>>76324044 (OP)Millennials can't cope with their steady physical decline so they project it on zoomers, make up copes about there being a magic peak at 30, cope about "looking younger" as if it's a good thing to look like a teen at 30 unless you're a pederast homo...
This is only specific to redpill cucks and 4chan gen y because they're typically the mostly inexperienced men who missed out on a lot of teenage milestones, they want to convince themselves that they're still young enough to have their first kiss or first highschool/college sweetheart but age and responsibilities (and their gritty knees) are dawning on them.
Anti-aging and immortality has always been a common trope but no one buys that shit as much as millennials do because boomers raped them out of everything and zoomers cant be arsed to replace them as goyim slaves
>>76324526>are much more internet illiterate than me. they barely know how to do anything onlineNot everyone has to be a terminally online loser who navigates mongolian basketweaving forums.
You dont interact with that age bracket, stop making shit up
>>76324044 (OP)Look at the pictures of this mongoloid then realise you should disregard most of what he says unless you're a similarly looking overweight toddler.
>>76324044 (OP)I'm 37 and I've never looked better than I do now. Still have a thicc, beautiful head of hair, /fit/, no crow's feet or gray hair. But I do have a bit less energy than I used to.
>>76324540lmao, zoomers are one of the most terminally online groups there is--it's just that they spend all their time on brainrot social media apps like tiktok. they're also technologically illiterate, which is what that other anon was getting at
>>76324571>More baseless claims by 30 year olds in flyovers wondering why their hillbilly coworkers at their dead end jobs are technologically illiterate
>>76324581hey little buddy, do directories give you a hard time?
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>>76324114lol, lmao. My local cinema showed this movie once. It was shit but i was nodding out anyway, there were like 2 other people in there. The endscreen said coproduced with northkorea. Like how? That film was pretty strong in its anticommie message. How could they coproduce it there? But soundtrack was sick
>>76324617You and I might hereby the only insane fucks on this board to have willingly watched Gandahar without being in altered states.
crying about suffering the symptoms of old age in your fucking thirties is beyond pathetic, and it's just proof that you didn't take care of yourself.
Also if that fatass can put up with the taco bell or similar shit that he injests every day he can endure the "war crime level cuisine" of SEA
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>>76324642>suffering the symptoms of old age in your fucking thirties is beyond patheticStruth. Sharky did just fine in SEA well into his fifties.
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My peak was before 16 when everyone got automatic buffs physically and mentally.
>>76324641sorry bud i think you take the crown for this one alone, because i was very high on opiates as i watched it
>>76324647Oh you absolute nigger.
I admit — I watched it sober. I will find you one day and make you watch it with (painfully Jewish) Jodorowsky commentary to magnify the agony.
>>76324651god please spare me. Ive seen enough jodorowsky (and these sadly sober) That i know that the version of gandahar would break me completely. Im so glad this fucker was never able to make dune. So from now on i will spent the rest of my life escaping you
>>76324644what's the adage, "you are as old as you feel"? It definitely seems true for the most part. If you start whining about random pains and not being able to handle alcohol and food you'll just put yourself on a downwards spiral that will make you lame and boring, while if you keep enjoying life and challenging yourself you'll stay fit and energetic for way longer
>>76324617didn't North Korea participate in the animation of a lot of western movies? I doubt they cared about the contents, they just provided cheap labor to rake in some money
>>76324044 (OP)He let this happen.
I'm 34 and life rules
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>>76324672Pneuma > Psukhe > Soma
The Greeks predicted all this.
>everyone itt admits to being a loser neet 30yr etc
see, this is the truth. honesty is nice, and its based.. none of this bs every second fitizen is a 6'3 wfh 10k a day ceo over 30 pulling college babes every weekend bullshit
>>76324115imagine being so stupid as to let random fat niggers on twitter have a voice in your head
>>76324540you don't even know what a rom hack is. you're probably gonna go ask ai what it is right now kek.
>>76324044 (OP)Shit lets check the average age of UFC champs
>32well there goes the point out the window
also lets consider this:
>most men spend their 20s studying and entry level jbos>most men in 30s just stop bothering about their body or looks>most PEOPLE in general wont do any shit but eat/work/sleep and go to this one vacation they will talk about foreverjust be above average you idiots
>>76324700Everyone is into emulation nowadays, that still doesnt pertain to "technological literacy" unless you mean that being a neckbeard who doomscrolls internet forums is an equivalent to being tech savy.
>>76324044 (OP)>37>uses terms such as foid and zoomerNever listen to advice from losers, ever
>>76324692I hate the fact that I share a website with a bunch of old faggots, I think it's about time for me to pack and leave. I started browsing 4chan at 17, at that time it seemed to me like this was a place for losers in their late teens and early twenties to discuss random stuff. Now everyone either LARPs as successful chads or doomposts about how it's over once you reach 30. I guess young people stopped coming here and only the people who didn't make it stayed.
>t. 25 yo
>>76324044 (OP)Men have truly 100% become women. It's over
>>76324805Kek idk how you got that from, majority of fit is millenials and boomers who never made it
>>76324143You should find a skill like drawing or playing an instrument and put everything into it to become a pro. At least then you can have a special skill which sort of makes up for being a loser, and you can use it as a creative outlet. You still have another 40 years on this rock, might as well get good at something to mogg normies with.
>>76324044 (OP)Going by UFC statistics men do in fact peak at 35 then immediately shit the bed, which correlates with that image.
>>76324044 (OP)the guy who wrote this is fat and uglier than sin on top of being 37, of course he's having a bad time
>>76324044 (OP)BAP saying men peak at 16-26 is because he's a fag into twinks who always wants to make illusions to hellenistic pederasty to justify himself.
>>76324919>>76324701The only UFC champions who last are the ones who get the belt before or at 30 because they dont just rely on unexperienced upcomers and journeymen, the rest have 2-3 defenses tops.
The average is getting lower because the sports entry is getting higher with younger and younger people dedicating their life to it. TMD (total millennial death)
>>76324143>Anon is depressed and wasting his life>hits 30 and has the oh shit im wasting my life moment>continues wasting his life using the arbitrary 30 milestone as fuel to make it worse>thinks turning 30 changed anythingAll it did was give you more ammo to keep doing it. You were always doing it and you still are. You need to get some help my man.
Im 30 and I cant wait for the next 20 years of my life
>>76324938>Im 30 and I cant wait for the next 20 years of my lifeOh, yeah? Well, I'm 50, and I've got some terrible news for you.
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These threads should be labelled as
>NARCISSISM/SOCIOPATHY CIRCLEJERK CRY THREADS
These goobers like 'Matt forney' the far right grifter will have something wrong with him like NPD. These people are miserable all the time but the one thing they cant accept is getting older. They want to be all powerful, all successful, they cant feel empathy and dont know how to make friends so the only thing they can do with their lives is bang 18 year old girls to chase a sense of power and belonging they know they dont have
so when they get to 40 years old with no friends, no family, no goals, all they have is power fantasies, of course is makes them horribly depressed to realise their bodies are failing on them
normal people can accept aging and fade away into old age but narcissists will get dragged away kicking and screaming into the abyss
>>76324115He literally looks like chrischan
why would anyone listen to this specimen for life lessons. If he came up to me on the street and started preaching to me I'd immediately sidestep him and keep walking.
He looks like bald chrischan
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The guy in OP's picture looks like this and hes starting to wonder why hes not in prime health anymore at 37?
Of course he isnt hes wrecked his body
>>76324954>so the only thing they can do with their lives is bang 18 year old girls to chase a sense of power and belonging they know they dont haveThey fail at that too. Women dont fuck old geezers unless they're absurdly attractive and fit and rich, the myth that women like older men is perpetuated by incels who live vicariously through "chads" and coping younger virgins
>>76324954>the only thing they can do with their lives is bang 18 year old girlsto do that they have to geomax to third world countries in SEA like this guy did lol
talking about 'peaking' in regards of a life is plain silly. Your carreer can peak, your beauty, your athleticism, but your life as a whole is multi-faceted and complex so reducing it to an ascent and a decline makes no sense
>>76324069It's this. I'm older than most of you fags (44) and I've been through good times and bad and back again more than once, so I'm coming with the benefit of extra perspective a lot of you don't have. (For what its worth, the worst times of my life were my late 20s into my early 30s. My early 20s were pretty good and so were my late 30s. My 40s so far have honestly been mostly pretty awesome)
Most guys are losers no matter what, and it has nothing to do with some magic number. If you were on the right track in your 20s, it's likely (though not guaranteed) that your 30s will be the same. If you were a loser in your 20s, you will probably stay a loser in your 30s. That's not guaranteed either, because you can always do something to change it, but most people won't. That's what makes them losers to begin with.
>>76324143This anon is a good example of what I'm talking about. He did nothing in his 20s, continues to do nothing into his 30s...and then wonders why his life is the way it is. He could start turning things around instantly if he truly wanted to, but he won't. Many such cases.
>>76324115kek imagine taking life advice from this.
Here's another bit of wisdom from an oldfag: never take advice from someone you wouldn't want to switch places with. You can listen to what they say, but their purpose is to serve as a cautionary tale. Not as a role model or a mentor.
>>76324044 (OP)Usually the peaking in 30s thing is for guys who are established in their career and overall in life. Own a home, decent car, life is together etc. You're in a place where things are steady and you can afford to do things like gym, take care of yourself and buy whatever you want. I think the issue here is in that OP image, that dude has low test. Unfortunately it happens, and if he has the $ he should look into getting that fixed. Sure you're gonna get older and yeah maybe hurt yourself here and there but you don't just magically peak in your 30s. You have to get yourself to that point.
>>76325019>never take advice from someone you wouldn't want to switch places with. That's a phenomenal nugget of wisdom bro. I'm stealing it
Eh already over for me then. I basically had no 20s except for my career. Now I roid and hope I die.
>>76324044 (OP)>ManosphereI don't speak to 'men', I don't speak to 'women', I overcome, I surpass. I go beyond. Your subhuman bait threads sinks without power or purpose
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I think people make a mistake by focusing this notion of "peaking".
I have a weight routine to make the most of my health and I cycle to work.
I make lists of books to read for professional usage and personal pleasure.
I try to improve my relationship with friends/family by being responsible and doing nice things for them, often from reminders I've left myself.
I don't want any year to be my "peak" but I want every year to be as full of life, growth & happiness as I can make it.
If I can't lift heavy at 90 I'll be lifting whatever I can for the greatest personal good.
It seems a much healthier attitude to just do your best and let be what will be rather than worrying about hills and troughs.
If you continue to grow, you will never peak. You may not be able to get the things you wanted when you were younger, but, if you still want the same things you did when you were younger, then you haven't grown.
>>76324044 (OP)>you age like milk if you are a sedentary alcoholic losereh, imagine that
>>76324044 (OP)I had to look up this whiny bitch. Holy shit, of course no woman is interested in him. He's 20 lbs of shit stuffed into a 5 lb bag. Obese, bald, dead eyes, shitty goatee, clearly shit attitude. The exact kind of troglodyte that the manosphere caters to.
>>76324044 (OP)>"Enjoy the drinking! Luv going to the club!">"WTF WHY DO I ALWAYS HAVE HEALTH PROBLEMS???"
>>76324154>>my two hot cousins that was my age at the time (we were like 12yo) kissed me and let me touch her tits, ass and pussy
>>76324044 (OP)Here's the truth:
> If you're a piece of shit in your 20s youth with ensure you can keep up with your peers> In your 30s you'll fall off > if you're badass and investing in your fitness and finances in your 20s you'll compound your progress and be more powerful in your 20sI'm 32 and I'm incredibly strong (99% percentile), married to a hottie, Masters degree, no debt, 6 figure wfh job, travel to other countries twice annually for fun. I stopped partying after Undergrad and took things seriously (didn't mean I didn't have fun, but I do keep daily lists and never let a single area of my life go under the radar). All of my friends are in their 30s and are fitter than they've ever been (because I surround myself with other similarly minded individuals).
>>76324044 (OP)>"men peak in their 30s"If you're going all out since puberty , yes true.
But most men don't.
I didn't reach my physical peak until I was about 45 (max bench weight)
1 thing that is sure is that you fuck all before you're 30s - you can't just begin late and expect to get to your best physical state.
If you worked out in your 20s and then gave it up for a few years you can get most or all of your gains back.
I did this. Worked out 20-35 then nothing for 10 years, put on a ton of weight, lost the fat and then got my form back - and more in my 50s.
>>76324044 (OP)Didnt read thread, but op's pic
>34>feel mostly the same as 15Most differences are
>slightly more prone to injuries>stamina / strength is better>reaction time (cant keep up in fps games anymore)What should have changed according to many
>libidoNope still wake up with morning boners, and still get random boners during the day (annoying as fuck desu as it was back in school)
>worse staminaNope, but i train more cardio than when i was younger
>better strength (old man strength and all that)Doesnt happen randomly only through training
>worse mental capabilitiesIf anything i've gotten sharper, I was a chimp in my youth and early twenties
How?
I think it's mostly drug abuse by most people (mainly alcohol), who arent honest with themselves and others. Like i got black out drunk from 14-21 almost every weekend and than slowed down until I almost gave up the booze completly by my mid twenties. Getting drunl a couple of times a year is not a problem O think, but the amount of people alobbwring down that poison and denying they have a problem is astounding. Decades of poisoning yourself will eventually catch up to you and basically worsen every aspect of your life. Like there are a few nerdier guys in their 40s/50s, who dont seem like the drinking types and they are still sharp as fuck. I truly believe most of the world is addicted to that shit and doesnt admit it lmao
>>76324044 (OP)Its always been a dumbass meme even having kids in 20s is 100x better then 30s.
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>>76325490This is me - stopped lifting for 10 years, got fat and started lifting again. Now 57.
Start lifting early - see it as an investment for older you - even if you give up for a while.
>>76324044 (OP)>drink like a drunken sailor>eat fast food>"WTF why is my ankle with gout??? why do I have brain fog????"aging is a choice
>>76324044 (OP)Matt Formey is a fat pussy. Who gives a ahit what he has to say?
Anyone here just goes out at night and fights people? My life was boring as fuck so I started going out and just fighting people. I started putting on a ski mask and at first it was only homeless people then it evolved to high school kids and now I’m picking fights with grown men. I even have a nemesis. I beat up the same guy a couple times, found out where he works so I catch him off guard after he gets off work. He’s been posting on Facebook about catching me at night and giving me what I deserve. Dude drives around at night with a shotgun trying to kill me. My life is so much more exciting now am I crazy for doing this?
>>76324044 (OP)Wow do the fat bald racist who doesn't lift of take care of himself is falling apart in his 30s? It's over for us men.
>>76324115Every time I feel depressed reading some suicide fuel post on the Internet I always need to remind myself that everyone who posts it looks like this. Physiognomy is true in every aspect and I'm tired of pretending it's not. The sad thing is when you realize even being some dork on 4chan who lifts somehow makes you better than 90% of the slop-people out there.
I'm 25 but cursed to look 16-17 years old. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope that I'll grow into my looks. Women don't see me as a potential sexual partner
The worst part is that I have a decent office job, 100,000k in the bank, no vices, and I'm in perfect physical condition. It's like being stuck in purgatory.
>>76324044 (OP)you left out the following tweets(and the entire context of his OG tweet) where BAP specifies that his argument is about 'vitality' and the quality of the youth's ideals. materially your life is likely to be better in your 30s but by that time you'll likely be in a mindset that seeks security and should not be spreading around 'advice for the youfs' like 'dont go to college' or 'homesteading is the way' even if you are jacked, have a model tier face and your forever gf of 6 years is a 9/10
>>76324044 (OP)Changes "30s" to 30 and it may be true. Late 20s to early 30s are literally peak. Peak intelligence, peak fitness, etc. Obviously once you hit peak it's downhill, so the 30s are the beginning of the slippery slope of decay and ultimately death.
But seriously, 27-32 is the GOAT age for men.
>>76325821>But seriously, 27-32 is the GOAT age for men. Balls - you don't begin your maximum salary years until after 40.
Women love a man with money - and assets.
Your 6 pack will only get you so far.
My wife is 14 years younger than me - just saying ;)
>>76324143Im kinda similar to this insofar as results are the same but i really did try everything i could in my 20s. I finished masters degree in CS, 2nd hardest uni in my country after med school, still cant get a job cause the market is terrible. When i was in college i tried everything. Literally everything. I trained rowing, basketball, couldnt fit in with the guys. I studied spanish. I trained aikido, nothing. I went to some film recording seminar, it was weird and people and tutors there were really weird. I even went to a semester abroad in france, had like one friend there and never saw him again when we parted ways. I went to student group meetings, normies there were too much for me. I went to volunteer on a film festival, was ostacrized for no apparent reason. I went to church camp too, cult shit isnt for me. I tried every thing on God's green earth to find my crowd, find my calling, find my passion, just to live and experience something, but nope.
If youre neurodivergent autist like me theres nothing you can do. You just dont fit in. What you can do is make your life better by pursuing your goals alone and enjoying your solitude to the best of your ability and stop caring about other people that much
>>76324143Julius Caesar was 32 when he wept at the statue of Alexander the great because he had not accomplished anything with his life.
>>76324059Being a millionaire in your 20s if you weren't just born into that and that lifestyle can be a lot more lonely than it seems
You are so far ahead of your peers at that age not just in wealth but responsibility and priorities that you won't relate to your peers. It's not like money like that comes easy
I didn't become a millionaire in my 20s but I started making six figures at 21 and it was pretty isolating until my peers started catching up
>>76325891>Being rich....le badPoorfag cope
>>76324900you will never become a pro if you started something as an adult. a 5 year old will make more progress in 6 months than a 30 yo in 2 years
>>76324143Fucking pathetic piece of shit
My self esteem sucked when I was like 16-21 I started balding at like 15 and had thin hair too. Was too young for facial hair so never committed to shaving it off
I hit the gym around 17-19 and did SS and got some gains but never could get over my hair and also got hormonal acne. Thankfully I was a dumb kid and bought a cool car and smoked weed so dumb stoner chicks would suck my dick and fuck me for weed and even regularly fucked a Filipina girl off and on for a few years before pino genes took over and she got fat. Great lay
I ended up in a corporate job at 21 and started making six figures around 22 but I got into a relationship with a bpd eating disorder ass bitch for 6 years that drained me emotionally and held back my finances a good amount.
Now I'm almost 30, I have a full beard and shaved my head (thanks minoxidil, fin is a scam just shave), money to buy designer clothes and have a good wardrobe and hygiene, and from working hard and climbing the corporate ladder I'm in a cushy WFH senior management job at a company that will never go under and in a political silo that has very little chance of collapsing under me
Shit couldn't get better. I actually can't wait for the next 10 years. I'll probably burn out quicker than that and fall for some cunt but really trying to live it up until then
>>76326057Why does this read like ChatGPT or do bald, bearded guys all sounds like AI?
>>76326057Also wanna add I'm a HS dropout but being autistically obsessed with /g/ and Linux got me hired into my corporate job so thanks 4chan
>>76326057Of course, another cushy work from home rich manager on fit
>>76326073Oh, and a high school dropout too. Of course!
>>76326068Im just an (((oldfag))) who has been at this game a longgggg time
Everyone on /fit/ who is over 30 is an incredible success. Must be nice.
Don't believe the hype.
I'm 34 and wildly more successful with women and in a better place financially than I've ever been. Tbh I didn't really start crushing things til I was about 27 and had gained enough confidence and figured out what works best for me with women.
The guy in the OP sounds like a mentally ill loser though who never developed past the age of 20.
>>76326074>>76326077WTF is he supposed to be? Seriously, every time I read 1 of these bitter-ass posts I wonder what the person posting it actually does.
oh is this shit again lmao
>>76326074>>76326077Everyone on 4chan is a rich tech employee, retard. Just depends on if they were a high school dropout (low six figures programmer) or graduate degrees (300, 400k a year software engineer or executive)
>>76325490Thats why you juice
>>76324967So rape it is then
>>76326074Usually the older generations on this board have been coming here since the 2000's. Only straight up nerds used 4chan back then. Its not surprising that many of those nerds landed high-paid STEM careers.
And how many jobs allow 30+ year olds to bullshit on 4chan during US business hours? Definitely not construction workers or fast food employees.
>t. six-figure tech job, posting this during a company-wide Zoom call.
>>76324080you only feel stronger and mentally sharper cause you were a fat retard before
I'm 37, worked out whole my life, sports in highschool, lifting 10+ years, all my joints are fucked up, I feel weaker by the day, mentally slowly getting behind etc
it is natural to feel like a superman when you were a fat retard before, but if you were a normal functioning male before shit does get pretty bleak after 35
>>76326255BPC-157/TB-500 will make all your pain go away, old man.
>>76326255So what you're saying is he could beat your ass?
>>76324272Is there an example like this for someone born in the 80s? The world was a different place before high fructose corn syrup and a battery of childhood vaccines.
>>76326194But I don't - and never have.
I might try the new generation of NON-anabolic steroids (hitting the market in about 18-24 months)
But I did this - me.
If I can do this at my age, then you have no excuse.
>>76326255Nice projection.
>sports in high schoolOnly fat people ever mention this.
>my joints are fucked upOnly fat people have these problems in their 30's.
I have a fat cousin like you. Played football in high school, always complaining about his joints from 'football injuries'. Everyone knows its because he's hauling around an extra 200lbs every day. He still thinks he's an "athlete."
>>76326255>mentally slowly getting behindYou probably always were, as a lean twink. None of that shit mattered or matters. Sorry you peaked in HS or college but that is not everyone.
>>76326171Sales and I make good money but I will never be rich enough to matter unless I give up security to pursue my own business.
>>76325019>>76325034Don't trust anyone over 30 years old.
>>76324044 (OP)Skill issue.
>>76325012Idk, anon, 39 here, my teens to early 30s were spent doped up on antipsychotics because of a misdiagnosis. I don't have any chronic health shit, aside from extreme internalized resentment. Went from a khv neet to hooking up with college sluts and earning a higher salary than any friends, family, acquaintances, by leveraging the niche skills i accrued as a shutin.
>lol do you only care about pussy and money fag?No, not in the least.
>>76325024A lot of the dudes in their 30s with all of those things have also aged considerably, might have one or more chronic pain issue, etc. Gyms aren't out of reach for most people, and lifting doesn't necessarily make you look younger, especially if you either aged like shit or didn't bother taking care of yourself in your 20s. I don't feel like I'm peaking, and I know I have much better times ahead. I look good, I feel good, and I can mostly do whatever I want. Doubt its changing soon.
>>76326548This is a literal boomer expression invented in the 1960s anon.
>>76326410What do you sell?
>>76324059>like a 20s millionaire is more rare and more desired than a 30s millionairei had a friend in college, his family were very well off, he didn't throw money around but he was very clearly well off. he had some ignorant moments talking about avoiding the bad weather over the holidays because their uncle took them Bali.
his sister however had the princess treatment. diva instagram page, pink mercedes etc
he wasn't amazing looking, skinny fat 5'8. 6/10 face. super nice dude. all he did was study and play CSGO. the only way you would know he is rich is by looking at his steam inventory or knowing who his parents and sister are
he only posts food pics on instagram and random shitty pics of bands on stage at concerts. probably has 3 pictures of himself on the entire page and you have to DIG DEEP to find them.
he had a new girl out of his league in his DMs at least once a week. "omg i love X band" or "omg that ice cream looks to die for, where is that?"
we both knew they were gold diggers. the saddest part tho, man was lonely as hell, i was the only person that didn't treat him special. and the one time he got the courage to reach out to a cute asian girl he was rejected immediately. we later found out she assumed he was just another 'rich fuckboy'
to this day he has no irl friends. finished college, plays video games and jerks off all day.
>>76324044 (OP)>look at myself in the mirror after getting a haircut>look fit, but also have noticeable bellyfat (worse when i'm bloated)>i've had a few strands of grey hair but for the first time it looks like my hair is actually greying/losing color (brunette)>can see the age in my face. even if i took all the beta collagen in the world, i might look late 20's at best>ocassionally look at my old fuck boy fit in my closet knowing full damn well even if i was in peak shape i couldn't pull it offIt's not over but it really has settled in that I am no longer youthful in any way. I need to lose like 10lbs-15lbs and figure out a style that matches being a man.
when i was in my 20's i was too busy enjoying my life to be trying to convince anyone 30+ its over which leads me to believe everyone involved is a massive loser
>>76324044 (OP)You peak in your early 30's then go downhill shortly after. The guy says he's 37. Once you hit 35 you are in middle age territory.
If you did everything right then men peak in their 40s. Women peak at 25.
>early 30s
>no wife or kids, no experience at all whatsoever
>no friends
>no decent career
>no relationship with my parents despite living with them, we barley speak and never do anything together
>no real memories of my life, everything has been a blur of nothingness
It’s really difficult to explain how worthless my life has been. And knowing how pretty much everyone has their lives together in their 30s with their wife and kids, own home, great career, great relationships, so much to live for and work towards, goals and hopes for the future they want to achieve, it makes life even more hopeless. I’m so far behind that there’s not even a point. It’s unconscionable
>>76326664that's such bullshit, you don't need to do 'everything right'.
without blogging, i've pretty much turned my life around in the span of 3 years.
>>76326724What did you turn around
>>76326624Handmade silicone novelties
>>76326733i changed where i applied my skill i guess? instead of arguing with random people on /vg/ about game balance i started doing it professionally.
i started sending out unsolicited resumes to game development companies for QA positions they didn't have. one of them took a chance on me.
6 months after getting the job i moved out, a year in when i was feeling comfy i started working out, i got promoted twice to bigger roles with more responsibilities.
3 years later... i'm going into my 30s with no debts and no kids, making 1.5x the household income by myself, a physique i would've dreamed of having 5 years ago that now makes me feel small and the same porn addiction i had in my early 20s
tl;dr: i channeled my autism
Every story on 4chan is ALWAYS about some sort of gay tech job
>>76326745Breast implants?
>>76324966All he needs is the arms full of tough guy tattoos, grow his beard out like osama bin laden and get a big pick truck and he will look like every single man in my little town.
Oh yeah and a ratty ball cap of some nigger sports team with sweat stains to complete the look.
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>>76326848It‘s hard to fully emphasize how bad working at a desk is for your fitness. The most anybody can do about it is cope that they‘re offsetting that damage in their free time (to some degree) but being sedentary to get your food tokens is a death sentence on your body.
Anyway does somebody have Fat Horney getting chased by those two twinks in 2016? I think he fell over himself and spilled his spaghetti at the end but don‘t remember the specifics to find it.
>>76326896Why was he getting chased by 2 twinks? :3
>>76326896Completely untrue, I know a lot of retirees and the ones that had desk jobs are still very active, the 'active' ones in construction or trades and the like have more metal than bone in their bodies and can hardly walk
>>76326820>instead of arguing with random people on /vg/ about game balance i started doing it professionally.What games were you arguing about? Better yet, what positions did you take up?
>>76325879That story Caesar might have made it up, but it's true that Alexander was real life anime. He lead his first cavalry charge at 16, became king at 20 and conquered everything for 10 years then died. His teacher was Aristotle and in the same class as Alexander was Ptolemy who became the God-King of Egypt, initiating the Ptolemic dynasty.
>>76326553what niche skills were those?
>>76326921Powerwalking and golf at 68 isn‘t much of a fitness goal.
>>76324044 (OP)that dude is just a loser. things get better and better as you get older as a man. that guy needs to stop drinking and stop pining over the past. from what he said he sounds like he didn't enjoy his 20's either. he'll never be happy.
The inflection point is 27/28. Your 30's are the years you spend wherein the consequences of the choice you made peak in both their impact and personal significance.
>>76326639I was talking cumulative. If he was poor he wouldn't even get those gold digger comments. Cumulatively, men do typically peak in their 30s if they learn through their younger years rather than feel defeated. But if we're talking strictly looks and athleticism then its closer to mid 20s.
>>76326922i started QA, basic bug finding shit, learning their development cycle.
i had hot takes about balance and i wanted so many changes and i was ignored a lot. it was mostly 'complexity is fine, they won't cry about it' had them change one thing that seemed like a no brainer to me. it did well, there was a leddit thread with 300 upvotes specifically mentioning that change and i got a pat on the back.
i continued to do boring work while sometimes consulting on balance changes. someone higher up noticed and asked why there's a guy in QA writing essays in jira about planned changes. they had me do some bullshit career development courses and media training and then they bumped me up to the design team.
now im at a point where all i do is consult with marketing on MTX and how to do it properly. and if i somehow manage to get people to buy dogshit mtx i might be able to afford having a midlife crisis and buying a porsche.
>>76326941did a stint in eve and sold scripts for a bot in another game, so excel and functional programming, fixing bugs, etc. Then I just expanded those to other things, made a couple games, etc. The niche skills were more in the problem solving and analysis of problems, any dipshit can do the other things.
did a bit of college but hated it.
just beware, anons. some day you may come across some 40 y/o boomer who appears to have his shit together, but he was once you (at least for the current-losers among you).
>>76326896Just don't sit bro.
It's that simple, are you sitting right now? I'm not. Why are you sitting? Stop using chairs.
>>76326820>>76326941>>76326997Yeah, like this except for the fact I'll never be even remotely happy with my body regardless of sirgary.
>>76327010Stood up because of this post thank you anon (I would have less freedom to do so if I had 3 more TPS reports to file for mr. shekelberg today)
>>76327015my perspective changed when someone asked me
>how would you from 5 years ago feel about your physique?nevermind 5 years ago. even me from last year would've been ecstatic.
that alone made me cut gradually cut down from 5 days a week to 3.
I used to see so many posts about people's bodies falling apart in their 30s and once I actually got there I realized those people must have been fat
The real question is, how do you deal with envious friends at 30? My orthodox friend is trying to grow his hair long while being norwood 3 and he has a huge bald spot on the back and a small manbun at the bottom of his hairline and he unironically thinks he has full head of hair, how do you deal with peak delusion while being envious on top of it? I have full head of hair and i can tell that most of my friends hate me nowadays, i didn't even know that hair is THAT important until last year.
>>76327008>learning functional programming meant I could get prime college pussy in my 30sa doubtful story, but good on you for learning skills
>>76326961at 68 you should count you're blessings with regard to fitness
>>76327104no, nothing about my career is what gets me laid. the 10 face and being funny does.
>>76327133you said that you "leveraged the niche skills you accrued" and now you're saying its just genetics.
>>76327141I leveraged those skills for a career, yes, not getting laid. Might have misworded it
30's are fine for those with youthful appearance and managed to retain hair. Genetics trumps all in the end, as always.
Physically, financially, career-wise, I am at my peak at 31. However, something weird is going on with my mind. I’ve just kind of stopped desiring things. I don’t want sex. I don’t want women. I don’t want kids. I don’t want friends.
I’ve been cutting for 6 months, not sure if that matters.
>>76327174tfw decent face, good genetics for physique.
i was getting id'ed buying energy drinks at 24. then the norwood reaper came for me.
im like a nw 4 now but im not too bothered by it.
>>76327133nigger you’re 39 with a sagging face on anti-psychotic meds for half your life kek
>>76327008>some day you may come across some 40 y/o boomer who appears to have his shit togetherThis is how I imagine most upper middle class+ people (at least in the USA) kinda: people who seem to have iut all together but are 2 or 3 bad months away from a family murder-suicide
>>76324044 (OP)didn't read don't care not engaging with demoralisation propaganda
>it is never too late to get in shape>it is never too late to pursue new passions, hobbies, and interests>it is never too late to meet new people you click with and make friends>it is never too late to find lovetake care of yourself, develop work ethic and discipline in both your career and personal life, and put yourself out there to try new things. your life can and will improve.
>>76324044 (OP)MUH PUSSY
MUH MUH MUH
FUCK YOU ARE A FUCKING SLAAAAAAAAAVVVEE
I dont really care. life is full of regrets, and yeah I wish I had done things differently in my 20s but I'm still trying to accomplish the things I want since theres probably another 30-50 years left in my life. honestly I regret my failings less than I miss the old 2000's internet
>>76327562i’m grateful to have experienced the early 2000s internet. there’s nothing that can ever replicate that
I'm 30 and wasted my 20s haha...
>>76324094>This is /fit/ and we are all at least in the top 10% in the west when it comes to fitness.Seems that your nice bait was too slippery for most people anon. Don't worry, i saw it
>>76324044 (OP)No, I stick by that in this day and age, a man’s real peak is usually 30 or so unless you’re talking just prime physical biological peak like with athletes. Most 25 year olds are awkward and jusr pissing around. Is that what you call peak?
The thing that makes women less is that with age they lose what society values the most in women, their youth. Dating in my 30s, they almost never look as good no matter how much work they put in because youth is the standard for women. Men are often coveted for maturity, ruggedness. Etc. also physically unless you were Chad and peaked early like Chico lachowski or something, most likely your best in reality will be if you put in work by your 30. Take Finasteride too.
The issue is a lot of people especially men tend to just let it go by that age. They peaked in high school or college and think about how great their life was at fucking 19 because theyre already ready to die nowadays. That’s where they start to just settle and all this other gay shit.
>>76325845I always love this “muh money” cope from ugly, unfuckable autistic subhumans. Newsflash : just because you can only get quality pussy by paying for it, doesn’t mean other men are in the same boat. Do you think guys who are slaying in high school, in college, in their youth - do you think that they are getting laid every weekend with the “money and assets” they get from their part time job and allowance?
You are going to get mad and insult me, or maybe pretend that you don’t care at all, but let me ask you this : are you really proud about having to pay for what others receive for free? I think we both already know your answer
>>76327683Nice pasta lil zoomerito
>>76324044 (OP)It's all genetics. Some guys peak in their 20. Some in their 30s. What we can agree on is that the 40s and 50s are probably the point of decline.
>>76324044 (OP)There's a reason most strongmen are older than 35.
>>76324079OK, don't deflect about being gay or whatever, but what's the point of being "young" but to sleep with women?
Not "there's MORE to living than women" but what's the point of dealing with life if you aint getting NO cheeks? There's a reason the most depressed boards are the incel crowd.
>>76324105It's not about that. They KNOW they're only wanted for money, but they figure if that's the case, they may as well get the most attractive woman they can.
>>76327683these Chad types still run around fucking mid women for easy pussy so that’s not really saying much
>>76324079kek he’s some ugly bald faggot in his 50s
>>76324089Most likely they’re just lying to themselves since the truth hurts. I think it’s because 4chan is full of resentful, spiteful mutants, the same kind that you can find on reddit. Ugly, clumsy, socially retarded, the personality of a doormat IRL but a small dog barking on the internet. They’re obsessed with their failed youth which is why they’re constantly projecting onto other people, claiming that they peaked in HS/uni. In reality they themselves will never peak. Not in their cope sense where they will keep self-improoving, but in that their whole life is just a flat line of continuous stagnation and decline. If they ever attract a woman (unlikely), she will be mid at best and only in it for money. Ugly ducklings that think if they just keep trying, they will become a swan, when in reality they are just ugly ducks.
>76327762
>ranjeeet replies to himdelf bc no one took the bait
Keke
>>76327086Just tell them to get transplants.
>>76327762the world is mid. even worst for men. i don’t get the influx of anons on here claiming attractiveness except men’s desire to feel like they’re hot shit no matter the cope. you don’t rack up a high body count without banging mid women left and right
>replying to yourself
Keek
>>76327086>>76327781hair transplants, plasma surgery is all a scam and require constant maintenance and upkeep.
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>>76327873i got veneers and a hair transplant and i’m 39 and i look great
>>76327891looking good bro I'd suck your cock
>>76324771Doomscrolling is a zoomer thing for retards on tiktok. You don't "doomscroll" a message board. You wouldn't know that of course.
I look to my father as a reason for why my life will always be useless in older age so it doesn't matter, and about men peaking in their 30s.
He did a lot of things "right". He got higher education and a good job thats actually also important to society, he got married to my mom and never got divorced (but spent a long time of my childhood threatening it), he had a child when he was prepared for it (but pretty late, he was 39), he saved and invested a lot of money to become somewhat wealthy. He owns a very valuable house (surely $1m+) and they purchased another home in another state to rent out and then eventually move into.
However, outside of the financial things, which you might have noticed is almost all I listed, his life is pretty useless. His only child (me) turned out to be an absolute, complete loser, the only good thing I've done is not be a criminal or drug addict, and I myself am in my 30s as well. I've never in my entire life ever seen him have a friend. He has absolutely zero hobbies whatsoever and spends his nights watching television or youtube. He retired at the regular age, then just immediately became self-employed to do the exact same work he spent his whole life doing, almost typical work schedule, goes on business trips, etc. If he didn't still work, he would likely literally just sit on the couch all day every day watching tv/youtube. He barely even has a relationship with me, we barely speak, never do anything together, etc.
So yeah, considering what an absolute loser I am, that future would be the BEST case scenario, getting a bunch of money to live comfortably. But ending up with a complete loser son who you're ashamed of, no hobbies, no friends, and a wife you're probably only with because you would be alone if you left her, dying with no one remmebering or caring about you and no legacy, that's still a miserable fucking existence. I don't even know what he would consider his "peak" to be. Whatever it is, it sounds miserable.
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>27
>life has been good
>many things to do yet
>have no idea how much potential for improvement I still have
>don’t care, will try
>>76327980is your mom hot at least
>>76324044 (OP)Nobody says that you're going to be physically better at 30 than at 20.
Is just that men decay slower while women nosedive so comparatively you're doing much better than a 30+ woman
Getting old still very much sucks, but at least you have that silver lining if you're a man
>>76327174>tfw 31 and everyone thinks I’m 26thank you babyface and tret
My only regret in life is that as someone who started lifting in hs, I could have continued it to now when I'm 30. I made a lot of mistakes but I don't take any of them back. For anons that are young, take care of your body and don't stop going to the gym
>>76328216Based and hopepilled
>>76328230no shes annoying and fat
>>76324044 (OP)>twitter thread from a guy who is >not on test>doesn't work outwhy is this thread still alive?
>>76328651Nice bump dumbasd
>>76324617>>76324641My dad rented this for me in the late 80's when I was a little kid thinking it was just some cartoon and it blew my mind. I went for years and years trying to describe it to people to figure out what it was until maybe around 2010 I finally found it and was able to watch it again. It has a kind of sci-fi fantasy alien weirdness that's very rare and hard to capture.
>>76324138what career did you got ?
I simply never went nowhere because i just don't seem to care or believe in anything enough to try hard.
I'll probably go to uni to get bachelors in Economics just so i can apply to some gov job where they gatekeep it with having a degree. i'm 39. lol.
>>76327701normal men peak in their 40s, some peak in 50s
>>76328824Desirability can be a lot of things
If you read the OP then he talks about his physical health in particular. There's no point in being desirable to women if you have less libido.
>>76324044 (OP)You peak in your 30s and 40s socially and career-wise. Of course you're physical prime is in your 20s. Anyone who says otherwise is a retard or coping.
t. 34yo lifting since 2007
>>76324138This guy is right, just lift and have some means and it's easy mode to pull in your 30s. Way more than your 20s.
You are supposed to find a woman who you can impregnate at the end of your man whore phase though. I recommend it.
>>76328835Libido will stay high if you lift. Exhaustion will kill it through. Alcohol & Cialis can also help.
>>76328761I feel like we are similar, no real drive to achieve anything. Always pretty content with myself and my situation, wish I tried a little harder these days now that I have a family. I would like to re-educate but I'm a time poor stay at home/work from home dad.
>>76324044 (OP)This guy comes off as a manchild. He's alone, he lives in Philippines(?), he's obsessed and is basing his self worth on sexual success. I find it similar to players, who game women but never really takes the steps towards intimacy and commitment. Then they wonder where things went wrong and double down on their player ethos.
Find a good girl, settle down with her and you don't have to spend time thinking all this nonsense.
>>76328857I don't think you understood what he wrote
>he lives in Philippines(?)yeah you definitely did not understand
>>76328824>The source of data for this graph? My personal beliefs
I have major issues with fatigue in my 30s
My diet etc. has never been better but since turning 30 I get wiped out by 4 pm if I don't rest
I'm going to have to start daily napping like an old person soon
Honestly I thought at least the first 5 years of my 30s would be a continuation of my 20s because I looked after myself somewhat but I feel old already
>>76324044 (OP)Why areant men obsessed with pussy? There's a lot more to life than that. People that think like this are just sad to me. If your worth is based on how many holes you stick your dick in then you seriously need to reassess your priorities
>>76328903Maybe take vitamin D and magnesium and zinc citrate pills?
>>76324044 (OP)>In a few short years I'll be the creepy old guy at the clubBoy do I have news for this guy
>>7632913537 is pretty old but it really depends on the club. There are a few here where you wouldn't notice another 30 year but yeah there are plenty where you would easily be the oldest one in the room. If you're 30+ you should probably stick to bars and cocktail places though
>>76327021Hey I'm a Shekelberg. You can stand as much as you want.
I'm 32 and mentally I'm much better than I was in my teens and 20's, which isn't much considering how depressed I was then, but still better. I think it's because I just don't care about stupid shit anymore, makes me more confident and I can actually talk with women now without feeling scared
>>76324683tell me your secrets oh PELASE tell me your secrets
I also have a friend who is 35 and still lives like he did when he was 20. He has a daughter he takes care off every other week, but when she's not there just just plays sports, works out and has sex with women he knows or meets over tinder. He's very lucky though, good genetics
>>76329135>>76329155Kek I still remember being 16 in a club a seeing these "weird" old 25+ people standing in the corner, promising myself I would never be one of them
>>76324138yeah banging mid women is definitely an accomplishment glad you got it out of your system
>still drinks in his thirties
Stopped reading there.
>poisons himself
>dude I feel terrible
>I get more irritated and I am depressed
>this is all men in there 30s
>Sam Hyde said
>replying to BAP
I would also hate my thirties if I was still this lost while being that old.
>>76328846>You are supposed to find a woman who you can impregnate at the end of your man whore phase thoughyou’d be so lucky to. most manwhores just cry about how they can’t find a loving relationship and how they’re lonely
>>76328651because lifting can't fix these basic realities of life that it goes downhill after 30
>>76324044 (OP)I used to know Matt back when the rooshvforum was still a thing.
Nice guy but looking at him all I see is a balding fatty.
I'm going to be turning 36 in a month and this is what I have
> More money> Property> A 6 pack and muscles thanks to fraudingBiggest regret was marrying in my 20s, settling down, and having kids. I'd be smashing more poon now and have more money to do fun shit.
I'm not about to leave them though so it is what it is.
Regardless, things are still going up for me. The day that stops is the day I realize that I have reached old age.
>>76329385c’mon dawg you have a family. don’t squander it reminiscing about all the mid women you could’ve banged like all these other dudes pathetically do driving aimlessly to find women after being a loser a virgin for 30 years. you succeeded in life
>>76329390I'm a fraud meme with a plapjack wife who refuses to use the multi year supply of glp1 agonists I have in stock because she thinks it's cheating. Meanwhile she looks the same day over day while I managed to gain 50 pounds and like it twice and this time maintaining a 6 pack.
She has a bad attitude,is insecure by my physique (enjoys the sex ironically), and subtly tries to undermine my fitness with overly fat food and stocking a pantry of shit.
Frankly, she deserves to be divorced but the kids make it worth it. I'll probably leave her when they grow up.
>>76329385>>76329390Grass is always greener on the other side, I'm also married with kids. I'm just trying to imagine the crippling depression from being lonely if I were to break up. But damn seeing some of theae women during the hot summer days..., damn
>>76329402The thing is, I don't have any problem meeting women either at the gym or around day to day routine. There was this cute girl delivering my groceries to my car for pick up I've seen a few times and I could have easily asked her to lunch after her shift ended which would have turned into a date.
I frankly enjoy being single and on my own making my world my own.
>>76329413>I frankly enjoy being single and on my own making my world my own.Sounds like you are coping or are you gay? If not start approaching and take that girl out for lunch
>>76329402>>76329413enjoy or enjoyed? how long out the game have you been? grass is greener on the other side is very true. number one complaint from men that brag about sleep around is how they can’t find a loving relationship and how they’re lonely
>>76324142Orge mode landwhales to semi decent chicks lol you really stretched the truth talking about higher quality women that’s what that anon is mad about
>>76324138>Getting girls is so much easier than the dumb blackpill fags on here make it soundIf it were that easy, most men wouldn’t be sexless, and best believe they have tried. You don’t accomplish that without sacrificing quality. Why do you think it took you getting to your 30s to get it done?
>>76329425Enjoy, I regularly fuck sluts off of tinder when I travel for work.
>>76329424See reply nigger
>>76329479wait are you the married guy? lmao
>>76329484Yes I'm married with two kids with the plapjack wife. I regularly bang at least 1 slut off of tinder thanks on my work phone when I travel. I never got this much play in my 20s thanks to being a DYEL wanna lifter and having no money. Married the fat chick because she was willing to put up the good spouse act (lie).
The thing is and maybe it's my game are these tinder chicks end up blowing up my work phone all of the time and I just want to p&d them. I must have some sort of strong provider daddy game going on. Either way, it would just be easier leaving the wife so I don't have to lock the phone with weird shit and blame it on work privacy.
At 38, I have some minor physical issues and had small injuries, but it's a learning process and if you're smart about it, you never get to a point where it's irreversible. I just avoid certain exercises and am completely pain free. I'm also quite blessed genetically. I look quite a bit younger and have no wrinkles even though I smoke and am outside a lot, I can still drink as much beer and liquor as I want and still stay lean, and I rarely have hangovers. I have a few really unhealthy vices, but I've also been eating healthy every day for over 15 years, doing cardio, walking wherever I can, keeping my stress levels low and maintaining very good sleep hygiene apart from the weekends. When friends my age ask me how I do it, even though we lead the same lifestyle, I tell them that we couldn't be more different. What we have in common is that we shoot the shit together at the weekends. That's maybe 16 out of 168 hours a week, the other 90% I do what I can to stay reasonably healthy.
>>76328655i'll keep bumping it fucktard
There is no pre-determined "peak" on a man's life. Your peak is whenever you've made the correct life decisions for a long enough time.
Unlike a woman, your fate is mostly up to you and not really determined as much by your biology.
That's the beauty of having been born a man, you are in control of your life, and you can create abundance for yourself if you take the right decisions.
You can fuck bitches and create children well into your old age. You can always use your man brain to solve your own problems.
You can peak at 20, at 30, at 40, at 50, even beyond that. You can improve your life at any point in life. You peak the moment you stop working towards your goals.
Even in the worst case scenario, let's say you're very short, or disfigured, have a micropenis, or very old, there are still ways to get what you want.
Worst case scenario you just focus on making money, become a passport bro and bang hookers. No such thing as an incel unless you literally got your dick cut off.
Your problems are mostly mental. Raised by a single mom or an absent father, and that's why you never learned to think and act like a man.
That's where all this pathetic bitchass whining and learned helplessness comes from. The moment you quit that shit and get to work your life will improve.
>>76329502i got bumps on my dick but you don’t see me bumping this thread retard
>>76329505Interesting take. It's a shame life = make money and enslave others to get what you want out of it but the world is what God wants it to be.
>>76324272How can Johnny Depp look so good at 55 after 30+ years of every day, smashing back enough drugs to kill everyone posting in this thread?
>>76325012What's the key to turning it around. Everyone on here says this but no one says anything concrete. Starting from 0 how do you do it?
>boomer itt unironically bragging about having a plapjak wife
This is making it to millennials
>>76329549How was my post bragging about having a plapjack wife you retarded zoomer? It fucking sucks because I settled and now regret it.
More importantly why does your generation have poor reading comprehension skills?
>>76329559Calm down unc it was just bantz
>>76329484>>76329497>>76329413Damn I could never do that to my wife. I'd just leave her, and then have fun but you do you
>>76329534He looks like shit now, but he has extremely good genetics. But your example works with Brad Pitt who supposedly is or was an akcoholic. Same answer 1 in a million genetics, life ia unfair
>>76329549I am not him but partying and casual sex for ?? years is sad in its own way after a certain point. Your friends and family start having kids and stable careers while you're still just seeking short term gratification.
It may be hard to see when you are 20 in this cultural paradigm of endless hedonism and vanity, but the boomer with a fat wife will at the end of the day leave behind a legacy that can't be reduced to 10s tiktok shorts.
>>76329425Im not him, yeah fucking around is one thing, but finding true love, damn that's hard. So I'd rather stay in my partnership than fuck around
>>76329563Nah go get some hooked on phonics and KYS zoomer.
>>76324966He's actually always looked like that.
>>76324044 (OP)>34 years old here.>Receding gums and hairline.>Long history of drug abuse but mostly gotten it together by late 20s.>Started lifting at 27, now distinctly peak-natty yoked.>Competent but unexceptional striking and grappling, but only for ~15 minutes at a time because any more is too much stress for gains.>Wagie making a comfortable $18.69 an hour with one roommate gettingnmy bills paid.>Alpha king of CVS pharmacy.>Return to school for Latin literature.>Literally approached by 19 year old girls constantly because I'm prime goods to them.Yeah it's so over for me. I sure wish I was still a 22 year old dipshit anorexic vegetarian soccer player who thought psychedelics were life and was convinced his band was going to make it.
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>>76326896>Anyway does somebody have Fat Horney getting chased by those two twinks in 2016?lol i saw the reversed version where it looked like he was walking them down
>>76329566She frankly deserves it since she's a fat miserable bitch who is too stupid to realize her misery and depression is because she's fat which leads to her shitty health outcomes and poor coping mechanisms with work.
She got mad at me for offering the GLP1 agonists and instead would rather book an appointment with a shrink for SSRIs. She used to not be this bad but it's gotten worse now that she sees what I've become.
Divorcing her would be
>>76329587Forgot to finish, would lead her to finding some other fat sack who then will raise my kids which disgusts me even more than her.
At least being with her I can prevent my kids from becoming fatties like her.
>>76329582>Literally approached by 19 year old girls constantly because I'm prime goods to thempeak delusionalism
>>76324044 (OP)"peak at 30s" meme originates from some gay ass statistics gathered from millionaires in like 90s or something its not just no longer accurate its debatable that it ever was accurate and even then it was only about earnings.
>>76329610Shut up nigger I’m a former drug addict with a receding gumline and hairline and I’m at the peak attracting 19 year olds constantly
>>76324284where are out hopeful faithful world loving men at?
>>76324044 (OP)This guy writes like a loser and his whole attitude sounds pathetic. Without wading into the actual topic at hand, I wouldn't be using his life or experience as the benchmark for normal, fit and well adjusted men
>>76329505this. losers are only those who view themselves as such.
>>76329626you shouldn’t have an opinion on women once you brag about banging brown asians in foreign countries
>>76324044 (OP)If you look this guy up, he is about 50 to 100lbs overweight, pasty white, bald as a cueball (not in a tough guy way, in a pathetic loser gave up way), and has a pathetic little van dyke to try and give his bland face some kind of detail.
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Started a new job last week. all the old ladies greet me with a hello and smile at me while quickly looking up&down at me. the young hot girls walk past me looking down at the floor while biting their lips and trying not to smile. my supervisor who couldn't be older than 27 and is a qt3.14 always looks me in the eyes a little longer than she should be whenever she tells me anything (she always finds me just to tell me some small things but we still somehow make small talk and she tries to be quirky/flirty about it). on Thursday I was paired with a group of 3 other guys, guy A said to guy B, "damn bro why you puffing out your chest all of a sudden" and everyone laughed. ik I still have to cut down (my normal weight used to be 130-140lbs but am now at 160lbs while being 5ft6in, I’m a virgin but it still feels good getting mires especially from young hot girls. feelsgoodman WAGMI
>>76329662>5'6>160lb>getting mireswhy are you telling lies on the internet my man
>>76329674kek that’s how’s everybody itt posts
>>76324115>>76324044 (OP)>oh no I feel tired and angry all the time, couldn't be the decades of shit diet and overall bad healthNow do you think 30 something year old like pic related "feels tired and groggy"? Do you think he cares if there is a long line in front of him or does he use that time to answer some emails on his phone? Do you think he even cares about "fucking 3 girls every night" or does he just have a love of his life?
Matt Forney and losers like him have a warped sense of what is cool, what is the thing that alpha males do, what is it that makes him satisfied...
He even attributes his happiness to some external validation of a foid coming up to him and saying "oh my god I really like you" yet you can see in his description that it doesn't matter to him.
>>76329674Lol people appreciate Manlets trying to self improve. Nothing wrong with that.
>>76329694from what i’ve seen genuinely attractive guys find love early lol it’s always the middest of guys that try hard to prove their desirability
>>76329587>She frankly deserves it since she's a fat miserable bitch who is too stupid to realize her misery and depression is because she's fat which leads to her shitty health outcomes and poor coping mechanisms with work.>would rather book an appointment with a shrink for SSRIsKnow so many women who are miserable due to their own daily choices but refuse to do what might actually make them feel better (exercise, better diet) and would rather waste their time and money with a (((shrink))) who diagnoses fake conditions to prescribe SSRIs that only make them feel worse in the long run.
Why are women like this?
>>76329505>your fate is mostly up to you and not really determined as much by your biology.What if you're born with conditions that make your ugly and unable to work? You don't have looks and you don't have money, then what?
>>76329703I feel like in the past genetic losers were less socially rejected, as in they were still enmeshed in community life via extended family and church, which made them feel like they were useful and had a purpose.
Our current social configuration has no place or purpose for losers. It's really brutal if you weren't endowed by nature.
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>>76329505>Your problems are mostly mental. Raised by a single mom or an absent father, and that's why you never learned to think and act like a man. How do I actually fix this though? I feel like I've just been pretty dull, low energy and antisocial my entire life, like I was born that way. I have been diagnosed with aspergers which is probably true but I've heard of people with this who still live pretty normal lives.
>get a jobBeen juggling jobs since I left school, never enjoyed anything, I don't have a dream job and I only have my current jobs because it's tolerable and low stress
>get a degreeI'm too dumb and it costs money and I don't know what I want anyway
>just go outsideI do, but I'm not social so I go alone in the mountains and stuff
>be a passport broI've talked to women from many different countries over social media, sending pic, sexting and stuff like that and many want to meet me irl, but I honestly can't be bothered and many want me to come but I just can't bothered, I hate traveling and especially flying.
>go to the gymI have for the past 3 years but I don't like it that much. Rather play videogames
I envy those people who can just do shit and have motivation to do said shit, I feel I've been trying to be normal and live a normal life all my life but nothing really changes.
>>76329760>but I honestly can't be bothered and many want me to come but I just can't botheredI didn't mean to type that twice
>>76329763i’ve seen the ugliest white guys pull tremendously in latin america just for being white and looking wealthy you shouldn’t strive to be that find yourself a local that wants you for you
>>76329734I've heard the similar things from older people who I work with. It's kinda funny because we're supposedly so tolerant with people today and back then people were bigoted, but it sounds like the opposite were true.
>>76329760You sound depressed or have some hormone imbalance, get some meds (not memeing)
I am 30 yo now and I've never been happier.
>>76329839I don't think it's depression but that I do actually have autism, because when you have that your brain reward system is fucked up which is why super autistic people don't do anything except the same shit all day everyday until they die. I did notice that adhd medications, like ritalin and vyvanse, have an effect but not much to be life changing and it just makes me anxious in the long run, it made me really high when I first tried them which was fun
>>76324044 (OP)Men like this are why I continue to get out and enjoy life and never stop growing. I enjoy my 30s way more than my 20s. If your whole life is about how you look at the club or how much Filipino hookers you can land, probably didn’t have much to live for anyways.
>>76324044 (OP)It’s true that it’s better to be fit, savvy, and wealthy in your 20s compared to your 30s but most men who weren’t born with a silver spoon in their mouths aren’t. The idea is that a man in his 30s had more time to accumulate wealth and experience which makes makes him more attractive to women if he took care of himself. The zoomers coping about sugar daddies are naive. Every relationship besides your mommy is transactional. Your mom would most likely leave your dad in a month if he lost his job. Hopefully you’ll learn when you get older to maximize your leverage over women instead of whining like jealous bitches. There’s a reason the adage of young women dating older men holds true.
>>76329760I've lived a similar life to you anon. If you're actually a sperg, you can't possibly know that you're too dumb for something because you're not comparing your minds to others minds with much accuracy. people who are genuinely too dumb to do things are incapable of understanding this fact. My only advice is to keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone over and over. Do things completely uncharacteristic of yourself. As you're doing them, it will seem completely dull and like you're still incapable. But the world will open itself up to you slowly. Crafting your relationship to your life and your world is a skill worth developing. People who never have to do this may seem enviable but they are incapable of having deep agency to shape their lives, and will forever be victim to their circumstances (which always have their ups and downs)
as long as you don't abuse drugs, moisturize, use retinol, apply SPF to your face every day, exercise regularly and have a good job-- 30s is the peak of your sexual market value
if you are an ugly out of shape loser with a dead end job you will not be peaking in your 30s though
>>76329909>There’s a reason the adage of young women dating older men holds truebut that’s the point. you’re not pulling prime top of the line young pussy without money being exchanged. the ones getting it for free are pulling the undesirable ones
>>76329924Who cares? Every man pays for pussy one way or another. Even the older wealthy men “getting it for free” are selling the fantasy that she will eventually get access to his resources.
>>76324164Can't tell if this is a pasta or not, but you should
a) Shut the fuck up, and
b) kys immediately after reading this post, you piece of shit blackpill faggot
>>76329703Your question was already answered. Whatever your situation, there are people who've had it worse and managed to get their way.
If you refuse to take responsibility for your life, that's your problem.
>>76329760>I envy those people who can just do shit and have motivation to do said shit,The #1 cause of having no motivation these days is spending too much time in front of screens.
All forms of passive entertainment drain you of energy and motivation to do things.
Videogames, internet, social media, anime, pornography, etc.
If you spend even one day with no internet and screens whatsoever, after the initial boredom, you will start having massive motivation to do things and start remembering things you wanted to do.
>god forbid a man may have hobbies huurrr dhurr!!!Hobbies are for losers. Men with ambition and drive in life set up productive goals and achieve them. That's their "hobby".
Everything else is a surrogate activity for brainless consumer NPCs.
You will never be truly happy if you're not working towards something meaningful to you.
Picture related. Look up Brian Tracy if you want to know more.
>>76329914Thank you for the advice. I do go out of my comfort zone, not 100% I admit, but I do things on a daily basis that I consider to be out of my comfort zone. Like I said I have been lifting for 3 years straight and now I'm slowing down because even after 3 years I just don't feel any sense of accomplishment from it even though I can see and feel I'm much stronger. I didn't feel any sense of accomplishment when I got my job or from having more money than I really need, which should be a big accomplishment considering most people with the 'tism end up unemployed. I don't feel any accomplishment from successfully seducing a woman either, which is also kind of a big feat considering my circumstances and how much work I have to put in, but I just don't feel the pay off.
When your brain doesn't reward you for doing shit, what's the motivation for doing it? I know it's a cope, but it feels like coping and accepting this is the best option for me at this point to avoid feeling worse about it.
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>>76329734what this board calls "genetic losers" are jut normal people who dont look like underwear models.
Unless someone had actual birth defects or deformities, these "genetic losers" all had normal socials, families and kids. Which means they weren't "genetic losers" because they weren't 6'2", perfect hair and their clavicle width was the square root of 3x their arm length or whatever lookism incel shit you think you need to get laid.
>>76329662dude you look like a terrorist. They probably all thought you gonna pull out a hand grenade or something.
>>76324143shut up, i only recently got my first decent full time job in 17 years, im in my mid-forties. I dont walk around moaning like eeyore all day, make the most of what you have bitch nigga
>>76329791They were probably just far more brutally honest about what someone's value and worth to the community was. Someone who is crippled or retarded is de facto lower on the social hierarchy than someone who is capable, fit, and attractive. And for good reason; the latter will reproduce, bring good things to those around them and contribute to the future of the community effectively. The former will not do so to nearly the same level and may well be a drain.That hasn't changed, but we're expected to say it has. So you have a bunch of people lied to by "well meaning" sorts who will pay lip service to equality but still actively respect the natural hierarchies that humans unconsciously adhere to.
>>76331065Only thing is, all the cartoon-watching incel shut ins on this board will never realize that they are the useless crippled retards of previous generations.