>>33375388
Alright this is what I came here for
>Her hesitation was a neon sign she wasn’t all-in. You ignored it like an idiot.
Agreed.
>blew off Valentine’s Day, and told her it’s "just a date." Dumbass, it mattered to her
I was brief about the reasons why I extended my trip but I assure you they weren't trivial. I do understand it was an important date though, I fucked that up.
>but then you autistically went silent on her like a toddler
It wasn't a silent treatment really, more like wanting to give her space to cool off and definitely talk about it later, in person, not through fucking text
>Finally, she tells you that you're "too cold" and wants affection from you. Instead of trying to work things out, you suggest breaking up as the immediate solution.
This is where I disagree, it felt like she came in already leaning towards ending the relatonship, or needing some time off. I guess I described it poorly in the OP
>Mind you, she is manipulative guilt tripping you over money and harping on the folder over and over
So we both agree on this suspicion, my best friend also thought the same
>Next relationship, try not to be so fucking retarded.
Lessons learned the hard way, all things considered. Thank you anon