One thing that really puts in perspective how silly lifting for women is that women basically are unable to tell when a man is in good shape. For them fit means steroids, and anything under this level of extreme muscle all blends the same.
I say this as someone who's been lifting for like 4 years already and is in pretty decent shape, but the only people who can tell is other men because they're the only ones who know the effort it goes into building muscle. Meanwhile a woman that hits the gym for less than a year can basically get a model body. It's pretty unfair lmao.