As a gayden the cis men just suck at dating
>can't plan a date, act like they don't know how or they want to take you to the park/hiking
>can barely be romantic or charismatic
>not a lot of money, low tier gift giving
>lack of originality, creativity, surprises
They don't want to be romantic, even though it's so easy I've done it multiple times before. Instead of getting good, they retreat. I've been thinking about breaking up with my man today because he hasn't planned us a date ever, it's been me doing the heavy lifting and organizing.