>>40414587
>I actually felt like she put in more of an effort lately
That is good to hear, though my inner cynic would suggest that it doesn't hurt to keep an eye out for a second opinion.. as a supplement if you will.
>That's probably true-ish for me too, I dunno. With all the mental health stuff and the hospital stays and all that. It's certainly not something the average normie can relate to.
Do you feel more at home here, for example? I made many friends for life on this site, though never through things like friengen and the like.
>Thanks for the link, might check that out later...
I look forward to hearing your take on it.
>I guess... I think I once was in a situation that catered to that well
>but then it fell apart...
wanna tell me what happened?
>I think my primary motivation for learning things & doing things was, until recently, a desire for prestige.
Oh I see, that is incredibly helpful to know. I can imagine that it feels hollow.. what is the respect of people that don't even know you worth, right?
>now I have to set a new course.
>But I need a goal first. Like, an abstract goal.
Yeah, basically a point on the horizon. If that is too daunting sometimes you can also first ask: what kind of steps are enjoyable to take for you? As in, since working towards a goal will always be the bulk of the time spent engaging with it, might as well select goals that come naturally to you in some sense. Of course I am just rambling at this point saying obvious things but sometimes it helps me think hearing things I already know from others.
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>>40420037
What's up you two?
>>40419383
Glad they got it all fixed up, panty!
>>40422389
Why do you crave it?