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6/17/2025, 10:53:23 PM
>>81524515
Having a savior complex like that is cool and all but I think it gets so much in the way when you're not looking for anything serious and the other person gets way too attached to you and inevitable, some of them will at some point get too much for you to handle, especially if you have multiple people like those. That's how it was for me, and it all came crashing down last year when playing therapist for over 30 people became too much, as long as you aren't overexerting yourself, I believe you'll be fine, but I'd still urge you to keep that savior complex under control anon, it can be a scary thing.
Making someone feel nice and better is a okay but taking care of them and making an attempt to fix them is where it might start becoming an issue in the future, even more so against someone who doesn't even want to get better. Being a picky person helps a ton, that's how I've been since I blew up last time.
Having a savior complex like that is cool and all but I think it gets so much in the way when you're not looking for anything serious and the other person gets way too attached to you and inevitable, some of them will at some point get too much for you to handle, especially if you have multiple people like those. That's how it was for me, and it all came crashing down last year when playing therapist for over 30 people became too much, as long as you aren't overexerting yourself, I believe you'll be fine, but I'd still urge you to keep that savior complex under control anon, it can be a scary thing.
Making someone feel nice and better is a okay but taking care of them and making an attempt to fix them is where it might start becoming an issue in the future, even more so against someone who doesn't even want to get better. Being a picky person helps a ton, that's how I've been since I blew up last time.
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