>>60684469
That's key bro, you need to escalate without fear, if you're not able to get physical (light touching) you won't be able to arouse her. You aren't having an intellectual debate and she won't get wet from that (nor she's smart enough to even get into one as most people and women are retarded). The drinks is just a social lubricant, you use it to lower her anxiety and yours (but maybe that doesn't work for you but it's gonna work for her). You just need to slowly escalate touch, ask about anything she has wearing you can touch, heck you can even play thumb wars after some drinks and you'll have your excuse. Once you bounce from the bar go for the kiss even as a goodbye don't be awkward and you'll have it if you do things right, gauge the situation accordingly. 2nd date you escalate more and for the third is sex, that's the beginner playbook and what you should aim (never go for more than 3 dates without sex she also has a sexual expectation too which would be fulfilled if you take accountability for the role you need to play)