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5/23/2025, 9:34:06 AM
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Maybe I could have framed that post differently but I am interested in making more friends as well and not purely just dates
>Serious question: have you tried being their friend. Like seriously. Have you thought about being their friend without the intention to eventually sleep with them or date them at some point in the future. When you treat women like people and show genuine interest in making friends, so will they in return. Crazy how that works.
I did that for years, all it resulted in is that I become a friend to the person I wanted to date.
But there are some girls that I'm not interested in dating so I'll try to become their friend.
>Assuming you do actually want to make friends - replying to IG stories is a good way to initiate casual DMs/conversations, the content of a story gives you a topic to chat about. Would probably try to avoid replying to photos they post of themselves (especially if they post anything lewd), it's just hard to have a real conversation that way unless they dress interesting or are cosplaying. Could come off a little thirsty too, if you're only replying heart eye emojis to their selfies and nothing otherwise.
Yeah, currently doing this with a few people to see how it goes, seems good so far.
No thirst trap story replies, just goofy ones
>Just imagine girls are your bros, basically.
No. You sound like a girl t b h if you think treating girls like the bros would work.
The way we treat our bros cannot be handled by the average girl. I've tested this with 2 girls previously and needless to say, they were horrified by the conversations we had.
I got a big fat lesson from that that girls are different, they have different interests, ways of thinking, wildly different levels of tolerance and it's ignorant to think otherwise.
Maybe I could have framed that post differently but I am interested in making more friends as well and not purely just dates
>Serious question: have you tried being their friend. Like seriously. Have you thought about being their friend without the intention to eventually sleep with them or date them at some point in the future. When you treat women like people and show genuine interest in making friends, so will they in return. Crazy how that works.
I did that for years, all it resulted in is that I become a friend to the person I wanted to date.
But there are some girls that I'm not interested in dating so I'll try to become their friend.
>Assuming you do actually want to make friends - replying to IG stories is a good way to initiate casual DMs/conversations, the content of a story gives you a topic to chat about. Would probably try to avoid replying to photos they post of themselves (especially if they post anything lewd), it's just hard to have a real conversation that way unless they dress interesting or are cosplaying. Could come off a little thirsty too, if you're only replying heart eye emojis to their selfies and nothing otherwise.
Yeah, currently doing this with a few people to see how it goes, seems good so far.
No thirst trap story replies, just goofy ones
>Just imagine girls are your bros, basically.
No. You sound like a girl t b h if you think treating girls like the bros would work.
The way we treat our bros cannot be handled by the average girl. I've tested this with 2 girls previously and needless to say, they were horrified by the conversations we had.
I got a big fat lesson from that that girls are different, they have different interests, ways of thinking, wildly different levels of tolerance and it's ignorant to think otherwise.
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