I’m getting too old for this site but recently I’ve gotten a boyfriend who has had quite the list of exes, one even for 8 years. From everything I know, they were all kinda crazy and not good for him, to the point he’s extremely insecure.
I’m a not so good looking femcel and this is my first bf. He seems to be all over the idea of me and how I make him feel but he doesn’t really touch me enthusiastically otherwise. He keeps bringing up his exes, he seems rather traumatised by them, and I can’t stop thinking he stayed because they were hot.
He says I’m kinder, more stable, mature, sweeter, more interested in him than all his exes. But not hot, beautiful or desireable. I know guys say all the time they just want some sweet woman without drama, but I don’t want the desire to be one-sided.
I’m getting at an age where everyone has had partners anyway and it’s impossible for me to mog 18-22 year olds anyway so perhaps I just need to settle with the idea of settling. Yet.. it hurts.