Search Results
7/2/2025, 2:35:29 AM
Tl;dr I loath having to tread through the abysmal muck of the modern dating market, how our society assumes short-haired girls are gay, and being retarded into needing a short-haired gf for a prosperous relationship. Any advice?
I'm a pissy rising college freshman and I hate the world we live in. I'm going to a Christian college in the fall and I'm realizing that it's an uphill battle. If I want the short-haired tomboy of my dreams, odds are she's a fag. If I want a based trad Cath wife, odds are she won't want to look like a fag. I expect the vast majority of the girls there will be some milk-toast, immature, girly girl, and those who aren't probably will consider long hair feminine and short hair masculine, so even if I'm not just looking for the Catholics I still will run into problems with them not wanting to look like fags. I can't realistically ask out/for the numbers of random girls I see at the store etc. because me2 made that sexual harassment or something, and most girls with short hair are either fags and insane (I know its not all, but its not worth the nine accusations of SA just to get the one girl who will say yes). I just don't know what to do.
This wouldn't be a big deal, as I could easily just find a girl who isn't perfectly my type and live a happy life, but my entire life everyone around me and on the internet has called tomboys gay, ugly, gross, creepy, etc. As a result, I have this deep seeded insecurity about liking short hair which causes me some pretty harsh depression when a long-haired girl I'm dating does something nice for me. I've gone to a therapist for this and other problems, and all the help I ever got was "don't worry so much, and plenty of girls have/are willing to have short hair.' I can get the depressive fit to end after about five seconds, but it's hard to have a prosperous relationship when any amount of affection I receive from a girl with long hair causes me to think "you fucking pervert, kill yourself, no one loves you."
I'm a pissy rising college freshman and I hate the world we live in. I'm going to a Christian college in the fall and I'm realizing that it's an uphill battle. If I want the short-haired tomboy of my dreams, odds are she's a fag. If I want a based trad Cath wife, odds are she won't want to look like a fag. I expect the vast majority of the girls there will be some milk-toast, immature, girly girl, and those who aren't probably will consider long hair feminine and short hair masculine, so even if I'm not just looking for the Catholics I still will run into problems with them not wanting to look like fags. I can't realistically ask out/for the numbers of random girls I see at the store etc. because me2 made that sexual harassment or something, and most girls with short hair are either fags and insane (I know its not all, but its not worth the nine accusations of SA just to get the one girl who will say yes). I just don't know what to do.
This wouldn't be a big deal, as I could easily just find a girl who isn't perfectly my type and live a happy life, but my entire life everyone around me and on the internet has called tomboys gay, ugly, gross, creepy, etc. As a result, I have this deep seeded insecurity about liking short hair which causes me some pretty harsh depression when a long-haired girl I'm dating does something nice for me. I've gone to a therapist for this and other problems, and all the help I ever got was "don't worry so much, and plenty of girls have/are willing to have short hair.' I can get the depressive fit to end after about five seconds, but it's hard to have a prosperous relationship when any amount of affection I receive from a girl with long hair causes me to think "you fucking pervert, kill yourself, no one loves you."
6/21/2025, 1:03:34 PM
>>528263732
tomboys are the opposite of troons. In the current day tomboys are going extinct because they're being told they're trans now and it's a tragedy.
tomboys are the opposite of troons. In the current day tomboys are going extinct because they're being told they're trans now and it's a tragedy.
Page 1