>>33357233
You’re asking for advice on how to cope with these problems, but perhaps you should look to solving them instead.

>neighbor scratched my car with a sorry note
Either live in a better neighborhood or own a car that’s already beat up so you don’t care. The worst thing you can do is to own a nice car in a bad neighborhood, especially if you care about keeping your car clean.

>barista fucked up my order
Go to a different coffee shop next time. Either that or keep your orders simple or just make your own coffee so that it always be correct.

>job forgot to email important document until the last minute
Go to that person’s supervisor and make sure they are held accountable. If your employer doesn’t care about incompetence, then get another job.

>delivery man damaged my package
Buy directly from the store or at least use in-store pickup.

>health clinic misplaced my blood work and need to redo
Go to a different clinic or be more healthy so that having your blood work be late isn’t as consequential.

Solve your problems instead of just coping with them or else you’ll just be mad again when the problems reoccur.