>>40316499
First of all, awesome! You did great, Anon. I hope you do feel some of the accomplishment. You have reason to be proud you know?
>Still kinda fat though and no trans gf :(
Is it okay to ask what your target BMI is? And, do you feel like you have enough exposure to new people to eventually find a gf?
>>40316506
I really needed last night's rest.. thank you.
>>40317940
>I don't know a single person in my personal life with healthy love life
>Not gonna risk it.
Fair! I just wanted to make sure you are not giving up on friendships. It's too important.
I understand how you feel though. With the fears of homelessness and people breathing down your neck.
>I suppose though, I don't think most adults consider this kind of thing.
Yeah but it is my belief that, since the unborn child is not there to discuss these matters with them in advance, a lack of consideration cannot be pinned on them, and should not be the child's concern. That is an extreme position, and frankly one I myself was raised to take, but blaming oneself for being born cannot be the solution, is all.
>I don't know if I can become a return on investment.
By the same logic it is not your cross to bear to be that, I don't think. I have seen too many parents take much more from their children than their efforts justified. It slightly radicalized me in favor of the child. And should I be blessed with kids one day, the only thing they will owe me is to recognize owing me naught.
>>40319091
https://www.youtube.com/@heidipriebe1
Tell me if any of the videos speak to you, title wise. Maybe over-taking responsibility, for example.
>>40318079
Thank you, Anon.. it's super sweet of you. Hope you had a good rest, too.