As a trans woman, I understand how shitty dating can be. Cis people are pretty much out of the question, because no cis person wants to be seen with us and after years of searching for our true love, we try to make it work with the only people who have something, ANYTHING in common with us, other trans people. But we don't have much in common, and since there are so few of us, we stick it out anyway, instead of admitting to ourselves that we are unhappy and are better off alone, we open up the relationship, hoping that with every new partner you might eventually, FINALLY fill that gaping hole in your heart. But you wont, because polyamory is not the and never was the answer. You know its true, I do too. Lets just face the facts.