It feels like everyone defers to my bf more than me when we're it together. I feel like it's because I'm short, and he has a habit of standing beside me which makes me look smaller.

I feel like people should take me more seriously. I'm the one paying for stuff normally since I make more money, I should be the one everybody treats like the decisionmaker.

I don't want to like, lord authority over my bf or anything I just want to feel like I'm as respected as he is. I don't normally wear heels, but would being a little taller from those help?