>>33371990
>Now I am a sad unemployed loser who drinks and plays video games all day
Well, win her back, and maybe she'll inspire you to get a job, quit drinking, and become a upstanding citizen and member of your community instead of sad unemployed loser. The first step to recovering your former happiness is recovering the girl responsible for your happiness. Imagine a pyramid, each step of which supports everything above it: your gf is the foundation of all your happiness, and you build the rest of your life on that rock-solid foundation.