>>81806699
I think everyone has a bit of conflict avoidance in them. It's called tact, keeping the peace, being nice, whatever.
I just that, when it comes to having a partner, resolving the conflict should be more important than keeping the peace. The partner should be able to handle the issue; if not, then maybe the relationship should end.
>one bad sentence can compromise the whole relationship
basically meant that the relationship was past the point of no return already, doesn't it? Is it even worth it to be in a relationship like that... I'm scared of that result too, but I should confront it.

>>81806761
You really have to be slow and gentle with these conflict-avoidant types, don't you. Most people aren't patient enough. That further fuels my fear :^)

>>81806787
>i do feel like you'd benefit from some sort of brain-turn-offy therapy though. all the time thinking too many thoughts.
I don't want some "therapy" of this. I want the person I love to hold me.
However, we can't all get that, so... yeah I agree.
Thanks anon.

>>81806834
>>81806908
I wouldn't call myself a narc, but yes, I keep up a charade to make people like me. I hate it. I think it's like a bad habit at best or a trauma response at worse. Not a sociopath I swear!!
You make some good points in your post. Thanks.

>>81799384
Hi hi anon,
I mean I suppose you're right, my heart isn't in the right place for some deep conversations right now.