>Hand off established and profitable fief to runt child that got bullied into having BOTH Craven and Shy while their siblings are all either Pillar Man knights, world-renowned scholars, or my one sick fuck daughter spymaster who tried to seduce me and also keeps trying to murder everyone she dislikes even slightly
>A decade and some change later when I'm now infirm and waiting to die, they're this far in debt and constantly stressed even though I put down at least three uprisings for them, increased control for them, have been running constant raid defense for them since they're right at the border of my own holdings, fed them several artifacts, and married them to a ubermensch spouse who is hard carrying them in stats.
Is this what it's like to be a disappointed parent? They even somehow managed to become a fat fuck despite having no traits that raise their target weight. Is having Shy truly this much of a debuff for the AI?

I genuinely feel bad for not letting them stay my cup bearer forever. When I have an actual child, I will helicopter and do everything in my power to ensure they're as fit and prepared for the real world as possible no matter how autistic they may be.