how does one undo years of blackpilling for another person? My boyfriend who I met on here is convinced hes a fat ugly loser who doesnt deserve me despite the fact that hes extremely cute and is just a bit chubby (which makes him more attractive but I digress) and we're lookmatched (hes better looking than me if anything). I give him compliments a bunch and I always tell him how hot he is whenever he sends photos of himself but it doesnt seem to work. He always talks bad about himself and it makes me unbelievably sad because hes so sweet and kind and I wish he could see himself the way I do