I'm very used to irl approaches but the opportunities to do so keep dwindling. thinking about dating apps but the thought of it is honestly more troubling to me than irl approaching.
i do pretty good with irl (main problem is finding someone compatible long-term), but that all has to do with my 'vibe' rather than my looks (i'm pretty sociable and i guess i dress well so i dont have to rely entirely on my mid looks (29yo just for reference)).
i'm just worried that the 'vibe' aspect gets completely lost in the apps, and I also generally speaking don't like taking pictures of myself...feels extremely narcissistic and peacock-y.
i also can't shake the feeling that apps are for desperate simps and only exist to give women dopamine rushes. what do?