Married here.
I also don't care about marriage in and of itself as a thing, but I want some kids, boys and girls, and I also don't want the kids to grow in incomplete families. The complete family for me means: Man and woman as parents, grandparents who are closeby and willing to do their part. Unfortunately not many families nowadays are complete.
I also know myself as being adventurous and full of life. Me getting married assures both myself and my wife subconsciously that I won't leave after every minor inconvenience. I see marriage as exactly what it is, a vow to each other, nothing more, nothing less. That's what a marriage is, a vow that the partners make to each others that they won't leave "until death does them apart", and this type of closeness can only really be achieved between a man and a woman. I'm a traveler through life by nature, I couldn't care less about the house and car and objects and shit. If I were to get divorced, I'd give it all to her and the kid and I'll be back at square one, meaning with just the clothes on me if that. The only things I truly own are what I owned the moment I was born. So for me, a woman's worth to be wife is her capacity and willingness to carry my children, I've always thought that way. If a woman did not have the bare minimum willingness to have children with me, I wouldn't even consider her existence. No judging, just not wife material.
There is no possible way for me to ever be friends to a woman, or "get along" or any of that, for me men and women are different halves to a whole whose purpose is to bring forth children and raise them well. Doesn't mean men and women's only purpose in existence is to have children, but men and women's purpose when they get married, like a side quest so to speak, is to make and raise children. You don't have to "take" the side quest if you won't want.

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i dont play kiddy shit