ftm here, at first i was ashamed of me trying to cut myself since i thought it was fembrained, but after i actually thought about why i wanted to do it i realized its just me being destructive but being unable to break stuff since its either not mine or too valuable so i resorted to attempt cutting myself which rarely worked. now i keep a piece of useless cardboard in my closet and i stab it whenever i have a meltdown. its not the best option but i would rather not hurt my body or cost myself money. imo its only fembrained depending on the thought behind it, to me its mostly women that do it because guys will just not give a shit and punch their paper walls like a gorilla