>>2549073
>cat onesie would probably be perfect, but I haven't found one yet.
Not a snap crotch onesie but do you mean something like this? https://www.littleforbig.com/product/black-cat-luna-onesie-bodysuit/
Or just something with a cat pattern? Because stuff like that is out there.

>But the idea of showing her porn just seems extremely weird to me.
Honestly yeah that's difficult. I wish there was just more 'casual' ABDL girl content. But I was thinking more along the lines of showing her instagram/twitter/tumblr pages rather than explicit content.

>Have you done it yourself, or is it all theoretical/observational?
Sorta. Although a lot of it is just based on stuff I've observed in the community and women in general.
I had a girlfriend who was really 'woke' and, weirdly, her big reason for not wanting to do ABDL is because she thought of this fetish as a really submissive 'white girl thing' and all the girls she saw online doing it were white.
So, the reason I mentioned the 'style' and 'influencer' thing is because seeing Sunny is actually what convinced her to try the fetish out, oddly enough. Seeing a hot, cool, black girl, got her comfortable with trying it.

Also I dated an art teacher who was really into fashion and kinda looped ABDL into some of her interests there which is why I mentioned it.

I think all of the advice is solid though just based on my personal observations.