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7/23/2025, 1:42:49 AM
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>Maybe I'll be switching back to my old dead-end job in a year, because I found it more comfortable and had confidence in my ability to perform the role.
Are there any certifications you can get to advance you in the field you already have experience in? That can help give you the boost you need. Also, if you still feel a little uncomfortable in your new role, I really suggest going on ChatGPT and asking it what you can do to gain more confidence in your work task. You can even ask it to give you some work related exercises and for it to give you feed back on how you would describe that you would handle the task.
>I feel like God wants me to be alone. Maybe there is no dorky and cute weeb girl out there for me, and there never will be
Pic related is a dorky guy who married a dorky girl. I watch him every now and again on YouTube just to see what's up with him. From my experience, there are a lot of girls into dorky things nowadays. The trouble is finding them in a natural way. You just need a systems approach for finding the girl you want. Don't give up on finding a companion. Create a system for meeting them. For example, this guy is a Christian and he met his wife through church related groups. That's an example of systemizing the way you meet people who have specific interests. If you want a dorky and cute weeb girl, you need to think of where you would likely meet a dorky cute weeb girl. From my personal experience in Los Angeles, a minimum of 2.5 out of 10 girls (again, from my experience) are now interested in dorky/nerdy stuff in general. regardless of race. So if you volunteer with a local charity that has a lot of young adult engagement, go to a church with some sort of adult small group, and pair that with some other social gathering like local fandom conventions and try to meet with a local group attending (probably can find this via discord for the convention), you should be around at least 8 girls into dorky things.
Keep in mind, when you enter a new group, it's good to get your bearings. Find the first person who positively meets you and just kinda shoot the shit with them. That always gives you good bearings in a new group setting. Then after that, you might find the girl.
>Why bother feeling optimistic when I have nothing to show for my efforts so far?
Make sure you are also enjoying the everyday moments of life. Most of our lives consist of smaller moments, sitting peacefully in the early morning having a glass of milk, late night reading, weekend sitting in the shade reading a book, etc.
Remind yourself to enjoy the regular moments in the present.
And not only that, but remember to always approach what you're facing in life with gratitude. Remind yourself of that.
>What if I've just been watering a dead seed this whole time?
You exist. You have goals and things you would like to do. Just because you're still pursuing them doesn't mean it's a dead seed.
I pray for your success, anon. You have people cheering you on.
>Maybe I'll be switching back to my old dead-end job in a year, because I found it more comfortable and had confidence in my ability to perform the role.
Are there any certifications you can get to advance you in the field you already have experience in? That can help give you the boost you need. Also, if you still feel a little uncomfortable in your new role, I really suggest going on ChatGPT and asking it what you can do to gain more confidence in your work task. You can even ask it to give you some work related exercises and for it to give you feed back on how you would describe that you would handle the task.
>I feel like God wants me to be alone. Maybe there is no dorky and cute weeb girl out there for me, and there never will be
Pic related is a dorky guy who married a dorky girl. I watch him every now and again on YouTube just to see what's up with him. From my experience, there are a lot of girls into dorky things nowadays. The trouble is finding them in a natural way. You just need a systems approach for finding the girl you want. Don't give up on finding a companion. Create a system for meeting them. For example, this guy is a Christian and he met his wife through church related groups. That's an example of systemizing the way you meet people who have specific interests. If you want a dorky and cute weeb girl, you need to think of where you would likely meet a dorky cute weeb girl. From my personal experience in Los Angeles, a minimum of 2.5 out of 10 girls (again, from my experience) are now interested in dorky/nerdy stuff in general. regardless of race. So if you volunteer with a local charity that has a lot of young adult engagement, go to a church with some sort of adult small group, and pair that with some other social gathering like local fandom conventions and try to meet with a local group attending (probably can find this via discord for the convention), you should be around at least 8 girls into dorky things.
Keep in mind, when you enter a new group, it's good to get your bearings. Find the first person who positively meets you and just kinda shoot the shit with them. That always gives you good bearings in a new group setting. Then after that, you might find the girl.
>Why bother feeling optimistic when I have nothing to show for my efforts so far?
Make sure you are also enjoying the everyday moments of life. Most of our lives consist of smaller moments, sitting peacefully in the early morning having a glass of milk, late night reading, weekend sitting in the shade reading a book, etc.
Remind yourself to enjoy the regular moments in the present.
And not only that, but remember to always approach what you're facing in life with gratitude. Remind yourself of that.
>What if I've just been watering a dead seed this whole time?
You exist. You have goals and things you would like to do. Just because you're still pursuing them doesn't mean it's a dead seed.
I pray for your success, anon. You have people cheering you on.
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