I screamed at my mother at age 13 and stopped her from hitting me cuz she felt stressed that day and I forgot to clean my room. From then on she and my sister started to gaslight me calling me a coward and daring me to hit them.
I did hit my sister several times cuz
>we were 1 year apart
>she used violence all the time, also stole my things constantly

So yeah, my mom in not evil or anything, but at ages 50-52 she acted like most women do, emotionally bursting into fits of anger, then playing the victim.
>inb4, no, dad was not around