I know most probably didnโt get whippings if so how old were you when you said Enough!
>>510036259 (OP)I suspect the problem with zoomer and millenial males is they never had that coming of age fist fight with their fathers the rest of us went through.
My dad left before I got big enough to hit him back
Fucking pussy
>>510036259 (OP)If Grandpa was originally the disciplinarian would that count? If it would, about five or six? He was watching wrestling while laying on the floor in fron to the tv. I took the paddle and broke it over his head while he was watching.
>>510036259 (OP)I donโt need to. They got better over time with communication
Ymmv
>>510036516It's not normal to fight your dad, you're just white trash bro. How did this even become a reasonable argument in your head though? "Yeah my dad was so trash I had to fight him physically haha dumb next gens will never know that" <---------- you look at that and think it's a good thing even though it makes you look like one of the biggest retards on earth
>>510036767You couldn't understand... you didn't have a father.
>>510036259 (OP)I haven't talked to my dad in two years. I kind of despise my mom because she always ignored what I said growing up but now she always agrees with me and believes what ever I tell her. Boomers are the most useless generation ever.
>>510036879Nope, never had a white trash father I'd have to physically engage with, you're right. Sorry you did but maybe don't soapbox about it on 4chan, it's kinda cringe
>>510036259 (OP)Not all parents are as bad as you westoids normally had. Many people around the world had decent parents, not the stereotypical western retards.
>>510036259 (OP)I was around 18 and my mother got pissed me for something. she went to punch me in the stomach and hit me in the enormous cowboy belt buckle I was wearing (which was the style at the time). She hurt her hand, and I said "you will never try to hit me again". she never did.
>>510036879You have been brainwashed by Jerry Springer and you dont even know it.
https://youtu.be/dBkosoJZzs8
Your entire white existence mirrors that of which kikes built for you.
You are the caricature that they created, a golem.
>>510036879Mate, you're straight up trailer trash
Have a father, he's still with my mom, we went camping, fishing, fixed cars, etc. with the guy for years, moved out at 18 for school and now have my own house. IE. everything has turned out well enough for all.
And I have never gotten in a fistfight with the guy. We arm wrestled and shit like that, but only true niggers and white trash (which is the nigger of whites) actually fist fight with their parents.
>>510038698There's a video of someone confronting that guy
He really is a kike
>>510036767Fighting is as natural as sex. Westerners are just to pussy to accept it. A man needs a good fight every now and then for self esteem, staving off depression, endorphins and just bonding with your fellow male.
>>510042014You're responding to somebody that still probably plays video games and buys toys like a child. He literally cannot understand what it means to be a man.
>>510036516>Being a bitter old loser from a family of retards is actually based! RAAGGHH FUCK YOUNG PEOPLE!!!This isnโt your own personal emotional support forum.
Log off old man, youโre shitting up our board.
Recently
My dad to my mom said I was mentally retarded for telling them to not take the vax (he didn't see I was behind him or that I could hear him)
My dad and his brothers also regularly beat me when I was a kid
My dad does not speak English and has never bothered learning it for our sake
I earn $100k at my job and he leeches off me, sending my money to his brothers back in his shit hole country.
You are saying, that, I should never resent this nigger, and that I should give my life to him?
The very first thing I remember after I was born was my mom taking me to a clinic and getting my dick snipped and then my dad shoving his chode to my face while I was breastfeeding on mom.
Kill yourself
I still live with my parents yes. I just cannot reconcile these thoughts nor have I ever talked to them about it. In fact, I don't even talk to them. Years go by and I just go work, come home, sleep, eat, repeat!
I go crazy inside my head arguing in fictional scenarios with everyone because I can't actually kill them IRL
>>510036259 (OP)>I know most probably didnโt get whippingswut?
wait... why not? Nobody told me it was optional.
>>510036516This
You're not a man until you square up to the ol' man and put him on his arse.
>>510036767Who ordered a fag? HEY EVERYONE! WE GOT A FAGGOT HERE! WHO ORDERED THE FAGGOT?
>>510044915>Iโm a proud niggerWe know, this website has flags.
>>510036597Same here bro. I saw him again when I was older and he was really meek and quiet.
>>510036259 (OP)When I was 17, I realized my parents, like all boomers, were fucking losers. It's been a never ending fight with them since. Genuinely, I would have been better without parents at all.
>>510036259 (OP)At 13yo. I got whipped like a rented donkey. But at 13yo, I went full psycho. I ended up in juvie for two years for cracking the skull of a bully nigger with a baseball bat. He was in a coma. Thank God he lived. But lost flmost function of one arm. My parents began to be afraid of me. I got out at 15yo and they pretty much let me do anything I want. Ar 16 and half I moved away for good.
>>510045013>Excuse me, I'm not a nigger>I'm queerjust keep your dick away from kids m8 and none will ever really give a flying fuck what you do in the privacy of your bedroom.
>>510042014> Fighting is as natural as sex.Yeah, if youโre low class. The upper class only fights in youth, training, sport, and war. The kind of situation where youโd get into a bar fight or something only happens to the low brow.
>>510036516I didn't strike back out of respect, maybe I should have
>>510036259 (OP)my parents tried to cut my allowance off once i turned 30 so i threatened to run away, they pay my bills still but dont give me money for videogames etc anymore
>>510036259 (OP)>At What Age Did You Stand Up To Your Parents?When I had enough of my father beating me and my mother beating me.
He would abuse her and me, and she would abuse me because shit rolls down hill.
She broke my nose with a punch one night because I asked for a pillow case, so I beat the shit out of her after years of abuse.
He was drunk and started beating me once and I smashed his balls in and beat the shit out of him.
Lived with my grandmother after that and my parents got their shit together and became somewhat not shitty people and I took care of my grandmother.
If I had not started living with her, id become a drunk hunk of shit like them, now I help build homes for people who lose them in disasters.
>>510045330He was expecting you. My son is about the right age to try and have a go at his old man. We'll see I guess.
>>510036259 (OP)I genuinely struggle to comprehend the experience of growing up with inadequate parents. My own childhood was imbued with such profound love and care that it borders on the surreal.
>>510045239Trans kids own this island you horrible chud
Your days are numbered.
>>510045330Too bloody RIGHT you should have, It really is a rite if passage. Don't listen to all these faggots with their feminist 20th century mumbo jumbo. The mistake my da made was he didn't go full Saturn and kill me while I was small & he had the chance.
Pro tip: He secretly respects you and is proud of you for it when you kick his ass but he'll only tell you when he's drunk.
>>510036516Sorry bro, I come from English landed gentry stock. I can't relate to this; we don't behave like the peasants.
>>510036259 (OP)I don't quite remember the age but it was mostly him being a cripple already so he couldn't do much other than flailing arms at me.
>>510036516Well not my dad but my brother would get into fights with my mom when i was a kid. He would beat the shit out of her every time too. I couldnt do shit because i was a kid. Shit would happen in front of my grandparents too. Shes dead now from her third drug overdose and hes in a group home for schizophrenia. Shits fucked.
I was raised by my mom I circumvented her by the time I was like 8.
Never had a bed time never did homework, would play Nintendo 64 or PS2 or counterstrike 1.3 til 4 in the morning and go to school at 8, never ate my lunches and would shoplift pastries and soda from the shop next to the school.
I would exploit the separation from my dad and tell him everything was fine and only dealt with his anger around the time it came for him to check my yearly report cards.
Never really stood up as much as manipulated them against each other.
>>510045845> English landed gentry stock. I can't relate to this; we don't behave like the peasantsleave it out m8, a few digs is one thing but buggery is crossing the line
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/mar/23/boarding-school-matrons-abuse-charles-spencer
>>510036259 (OP)me and my dad like to wrestle and do martial arts, I'm 25 and he's 57, that fucker is literally built of steel. Everytime I hit him it's like I'm breaking a bone, and he's always out muscling me.
idk what he's made out of, it's like he's fucking wolverine with adamantium coating his bones
>>510045583I grew up with "you have to learn everything on your own Im only going to teach you things that wont help you kuch at all". pretty much the only advice i got from my dad.
>>510036516Being middle-class to upper middle-class White is probably the "normal" way to be a human. You aren't so rich you're this weird alien creature that doesn't understand what a fellow countryman is, and you're not a bumpkin that doesn't understand politics or not running your mouth for no reason (having class). In a standard middle class White household, you're smart enough to bring home the bacon and take your kids to the movies/county fair, but down to Earth enough that you have actual Human interaction with your family and sometimes you and your 16 year old son box for the first and hopefully last time.
It's human. I feel bad for people that didn't have such a balanced upbringing as me to know how to make some blase' asinine comments about some art piece but also down to Earth enough to know that going to the pub with the bros and throwing some beers back is about the best way to spend your limited time on this Earth. That and making love to a woman who's your's.
>>510046221im 39 now and I stopped working out a long while ago. I used to hit the gym 4 hours a day minimum. Im stronger now than I was then. Theres something to the "dad/decades of repressed anger muscle" thing.
>>510045583I wish i was born into a normal family. Like those preppy kids in high school. You know those motherfuckers got it all. From a supportive mom and dad, strong social connections, money, kids, etc. Some of us truly never stood a fucking chance.
>>510036259 (OP)Argument over COVID Jabs. He admired to me that I was right a few years later, but I dont think I will fully forgive him over that.
>>510036516True doesn't have to be a dust up. However if you don't at least say something like "dad I'm a man piss off" you'll likely be a kid indefinitely.
Given what ball breakers a lot of these woman are too you really need to tell a lot of them where to go as well.
Big reason we have such social problems is any other generation might call you rude but they'd respect you for setting boundries.
Boomers on the other hand "reeeeeeeeeee you can't talk to me like that reeeeeeeeeee"
Children mindset in old people bodies that generation. Called the "me" generation for a reason.
>>510037698Your lucky, my mother was ok my father was a 9/10 retard in the raising kids department. My father was a mummies boy into his 50s despite having kids of his own, pathetic desu. At least I broke the cycle of stupidity.
>>510037138Honestly good for you, dude. You have no idea how mind-numbing and how insane it is to be above average IQ with ideas and aspirations to be stuck with retards for parents.
>>510045170Same here. I live in the same town / vilage as my parents but only talk to my father probably 10 mins a month.
Must have given that guy 100 chances to act like a person around me, never could so gave up.
>>510046902I delt with that as well.
They all denied it afterwards except my mother. Wild stuff having 10+ people demand you inject "magic vodoo juice" then deny they were for it.
>>510036259 (OP)I don't remember the exact age.
I stood up to my mom a couple of times in my adolescence. She's the best, but there were times where she could have been better. She's my favorite person in the world.
Throughout my young adulthood, I've stood up to my father and my sister in various ways. He is an emotionally abusive, gaslighting narcissist. She is toxic, shallow, mean and controlling. Living with dad, I learned the hard way why my mother hates him so much.
I cut my sister off recently (I blocked her on the phone, email and Facebook). We used to only speak to each other on birthdays and Christmas. I didn't send her a "happy birthday" text, and I blocked her before she could send me one. I don't know if she even tried since she probably noticed I didn't send her one.
Long story between me and my sister. We were both shitty, I changed and apologized, she did neither.
>>510036516Could be.
Mine was when I was 10.
Many things happened when I was 10.
But when I hit him as hard as I could in the gut after he struck me in the face, he had the look of terror in his eyes, as I had just done something he never did against one of his stepdads and wished he did.
Didn't stop my parents from manipulating and abusing me with lies and trickery for 30 years of my life in total.
>>510036259 (OP)>fighting your parentsHow is this even a thing? My mom would have kicked me the fuck out and my dad would've laid me out flat.
They were good parents too.
Never? I just did stuff without asking. They didn't need to be stood up to. On the other hand they were over protective of my sister and now she is estranged from mum. Looking back I could have ended up worse since I was left to my own devices, but being a sperg this was limited to computers in the 90s. Maybe they would have intervened had I started drinking at 15.
16 and the next day he packed his stuff and left
>>510036516my dad was so passive growing up that there was nothing for me to fight him over
>>510036516I never got beat, but did throw my dad on the ground at age 15. He never tried to block my way again.
>>510047440Don't feel too bad man. My sister was a raging cunt towards me until she turned 30 and realized the world didn't revolve around her. I speak to her perhaps 2x a year. Boomer men did a major disservice to their kids on average from my observations.
>>510044433youre larping as a human being if you think you make $100k and are still living with your parents. You are indian. Only an indian (bangladeshi, pakistani, its al the same) only a retarded indian (or puerto rican, both infamous for their chodes as well as being literal slaves to parents) would still live with parents making that much money.
nobody here cares about you now that you've revealed your ethnicity.
>>510048819Thanks.
She's 36 and still acts like a teenage girl who cares about fitting in with the cool kids. Even in her adulthood she hissed and barked at me in public like when we were kids on the school bus.
>>510044915Bro you're a dumb white trash faggot that had to fight his dad cause he's also dumb and white trash, you never had any leverage for anyone to care about your insults ;(
>>510036259 (OP)idk maybe 12. don't remember that good. whatever point I became quick enough and strong enough to grab my parents hand when they tried to slap me. after that point they actually stopped
16 because i was tired of my mother constantly running dad down and making any outing unpleasant from her retarded confrontational behavior
Only verbally because she's never given me a reason to raise a hand against her
Shes still a retarded cunt now but im used to it at this point
Dads chill and he's my hero
>>510036259 (OP)>At What Age Did You Stand Up To Your Parents>I know most probably didnโt get whippings if so how old were you when you said Enough!around the age of 8
that was the point when I black and blue from all the belt bearings and realized nothing happened. that I endured the worst and the was no leverage against me anymore
it was a freeing experience
>>510050507You already admitted you will not defend yourself irl.
>>510036516kek I did but always semi serious and never in the face because it was never about damage
>>510036259 (OP)> At What Age Did You Stand Up To Your Parents?never
that's how I inherited a house in the suburbs, an an apartment in the city, and $150k
>>510036259 (OP)Stood up and cut them out about 2 years ago after 2022's Christmas. Have not talked to them since. It's the same old small town petty bullshit where people who have nothing more important in their lives cause drama to make living in Bumfuck, Nowhere, Flyover-ville semi-interesting. I just got tired of it and called them out. Told them not to contact me for 6 months but they couldn't even respect that so I decided not to contact them until I'm ready. Funny thing is that the more I look back on my childhood the more and more things make sense as to how I ended up where I am especially with depression. Just now I am starting to feel like my mind is healing and I can figure out who I really want to be... at 30.
Another funny thing is that when I went through a brief religious phase I went to Confession and told the priest about this and felt like I was committing a sin by breaking the 4th Commandment. Dude tells me that I'm in the right and should have no feelings of obligations to reconnect if I don't want to. I believe the next time they send a passive aggressive message I will respond with that. I'm petty as fuck but I know if I said that in front of the entire family everyone would feel that sting with more than enough relatives looking at their own parents and go, "Wait, the Church is ok with me not being around these redneck pieces of shit? Get the actual fuck away from me! Honey, get the kids we're leaving and never coming back here again!"
>>510036259 (OP)my mom is 6โ1โ and worked as a farrier, I didnโt have a dad but it didnโt matter because she couldโve kicked my ass until I was 16 so I wasnโt a dick
>>510050862Why didn't you tell them off after you secured the bag?
>>510050767No I didn't, but you can read into imaginary subtext for hours to prove your point about being white trash if it helps you feel better
>>510036259 (OP)I learned from my older brother that when I hit a certain age my mom hits didn't hurt anymore so when she'd get mad and like try to slap us I would laugh at her and that would piss her off and she'd end up just outright trying to punch Us in the face and we would still just laugh in her face cuz it didn't hurt it was the most payback we could have ever gave her cuz it drove her fucking insane
>>510036767It's normal. It's not normal to do it fully serious with the intention to cause real damage
if you have regular fights you naturally build respect between each and real all out fights become non existent. all out fights happen if there are no fights at all and you lose all respect and at some point are deluded that you can easily beat the shit out of your opponent
>>510050960>Why didn't you tell them off after you secured the bag?I secured the bag after they died, retard
they were good people, thoughbeit
we had our disagreements but it could have been much worse
>>510036259 (OP)Few weeks ago. Iโm 35. Mom is dead, dad was being a dick. Said things about my wife and I in front of our kids. He just assumed there would be no repercussions because Polish boomers are heartless, poorly socialized fucks
>>510037771kek I still wrestle with my mom from time to time which reminds her how weak she is compared to me which reminds her to never try to punch me in a serious manner
>>510050987>It's normalNo bro it's not, you're just white trash with a toxic family life, I'm sorry ;(
>>510045210>My parents began to be afraid of mesame. my dad even told me he's afraid because of how cold I am. never really understood what he meant because for me it's normal not to feel shame or not to feel bad for someone
At age 8 I was left behind by my parents and sister at the grand canyon.
>>510047725>Didn't stop my parents from manipulating and abusing me with lies and trickery for 30 years of my life in total.yeah bitch who won that fistfight now
>>510036767Tell me you're young without telling me. No slight, congrats on being better mentally than every generation up to mine.
I just figured out how to operate mine. My 2 siblings never did. We buried him last year. It doesn't have to be a happy ending, just an ending.
>>510036259 (OP)17, me and step dad duked it out. Started over nothing. He thought I said something when I walked away from him trying to lecture me though his dad gave him a whole successful company lmao said ok, he pushed me from behind hard as shit and that's what I needed to immediately fire me and start cracking him in his shit and lift him and body slam him on top with a walking trip hook when I grabbed him. He was saying stop stop and I just headbutt the fuck out of his nose and got up. Asked if he wanted anymore cause if he called the cops I'd just kill you right here and claim self defense. Mom saw the whole thing and was terrified and just told me to leave and come back later.
Called a few friends, smoked a few blunts cried because what the fuck even lmao wasn't sad, more or less disappointed it came to that.
Eventually came home, I apologized, he said fuck you and I said I have a gun, don't fuck with me but I really didn't. Moved out quiet soon after that. Saw him a few times after and every time he tried to shake hands Id just say, if you want me to fucking break your nose again keep your hand up like I should respect you for no reason.
Mom is indifferent. It's been great.
>>510051097I never physically confronted my father, I respected him too much for that
we only had verbal arguments
but with my mom
there came a day where she tried to assert herself through physical force as she had done multiple times for years when I was was a little boy
she tried to take something out of my hands and I didn't let her
that day changed her approach to me
tl,dr: women are stupid and respond only to force
>>510050889>I just wanna say I fuggin love this image damn I'm savin the shit outta that
>>510051346I'm 30 bro, haven't talked to my family in 12 years since I turned 18
They were abusive but at least I didn't make up stories on 4chan about how I showed them right like you did
I'm sorry you're younger than me and got beat up by his family and didn't do shit cause he's a pussy bro ;(
>>510036516This, you're not a man until you subdue your father and take his place as the man of the house, sleeping in the master bed with the woman of the house. If you moved out and never did this, that's why you're a depressed pussy to this day
>>510051411>tl,dr: women are stupid and respond only to forcethe problem is people forget how weak they are if they go years without a physical confrontation
they get all these violent or superior fantasies but when they're in a fight suddenly they're realizing how bad their cardio is at the very least and that a stalemate is best they can hope for in any physical confrontation
>>510036259 (OP)23 for me. I spent the next 10 yrs never talking to or visiting them at all. Then I met my (ex) wife and buried the hatchet. To be fair, when I was divorcing her, my folks were there on my side and helped me recover from the debt. I repaid them by using my money to pay off their house years later.
They're dead now but at least we were on good terms.
>>510036516zoomer. fought my dad when I was 17 in like 2015. I was like 4 inches taller though. I won and I cried after
one of my many regrets already
>>510036516Plenty of times we had some wrestling to sort our shit out but they stopped as he got older and I got stronger.
It never went into fistfights because we are both trained boxers so it could go really bad for both of us.
>>510051636It's weird innit?
Not a sad cry, just an emotional outlet of frustration, disappointment, physical excitement. It's a lot.
>>510036259 (OP)At 12 I made the error of back talking my mom. Dad came home and beat the hell out me.
>>510046496Boomer cringe to the max. Holy fucking goylore. White man has existed since since prehistoric times and was just as superior then compared to now. Everything you just said as an association with whiteness or humanity is gay.
>>510051752>>510051636You're crying because a child died. That's your becoming a man cry.
i was 16 and there were no more attempted beatings after a minor scrap with my father and a talking to from my mother. its the way things should be. we have a solid relationship 20 years later
>>510036516All these american flags must be spics. I'm on the whiter side of spicdom and have never fought my dad. That sounds so fucking retarded and niggerish I can't imagine anyone but an irish boasting proudly about something like that
>>510036879darkies need to stop posting on this board
>>510045251bar fights are sport if you arent a fag or nigger about it
>>510036259 (OP)>when you said Enough!Enough?
I was born into foster care.
My parents were the state. Ain't no saying "enough" to the state.
>>510052056>I fought my dad until my mom told me not to ;;;;(((((((((((((;((((((((((((((((((((((((((This sounds like the most retarded nonsensical shit from a 3rd party perspective lol idk why people are admiting their families are shit trash so openly
>>510050507>faggot thinks his opinion carries any wayWe all know already you're pussy, anon, but stop proving yourself a moron. Socioeconomic factors don't come into anything here.
https://www.ancient-origins.net/history-ancient-traditions/initiation-rites-0016053
You're simply a faggot who has never been initiated into manhood.
@510036516
sounds extremely low IQ and niggerish
no (You) because nigger
>>510045251Elon Musk was reportedly getting into fist fights at the white house.
If the richest man in America is getting into fist fights at the presidential residence i dont know what to tell you.
Teddy Roosevelt had a boxing ring set up in the white house and would hold fights. He was known as a bully.
The confederates beat a congressman into the hospital on the floor of the senate.
>>510052326>socioeconomic factorsBro what? I didn't say anything like that. Are you mad cause I called you white trash and you want to prove it's not just white people? That's the most pathetic attempt at a diversion I've seen in awhile, but you're right, you could be nigger trash for all I know and it still wouldn't haven't changed anything, you're still trash ;(
>>510051619women, mothers in particular, seem to not realize their little boys grow and at some point become adolescents, then men, even without training
>>510052562What the fuck are you two even arguing about? Who cares if hes a nigger or white trash. Both of you are delusional.
>>510052687It doesn't really matter when your going up against a group of police officers.
>>510036516I hate how this board is full of low IQ niggers trying to push their trailer trash upbringing as something impressive
>my mom smoked meth and my dad was a dead beat loser who beat me and it made me tough >yeah IโmA poorfag loser with an obese wife whose entire life is trying impress teenagers on /pol/ This place is such a low life hangout now, might as well be a fucking a Popeyes full of low quality niggers. Absolutely no desire to be more then just junkyard dog faggots who hate education, intelligence, art and self respect kek. The types of dudes who eat out at red lobster and worship kikes. Normalfag ordinary nobodies coming here was the worst thing to happen to /pol/.
Very interesting topic 1pbthid, please tell us more
>>510052283i was an asshole. i got the belt at least a dozen times a year and deserved it everytime. i deserved it the day i fought back. it wasnt a real fight, just a no you are not going to hit me with that belt tussle. reached a stalemate quickly and he gave up. afterwards my mother talked to me about respecting him and not fighting him, which i recognize in hindsight was important to make sure I wasnt going to start trying to fight him everytime we disagree. really not a big deal. never had a problem with it again.
>>510052903Its always been like this here.
>>510052776Hi, I'm arguing about the fact he's dumb faggot retard if he fought his parents, especially in the context of it being "natural", which he disagreed with. This would be a pretty easy to story keep up with if you weren't an illiterate nigger, Now you're the newest dumb retard that cant reply to a 5 response chain, how are you?
There was never a watershed moment for me because very early on I was making more money than both my parents. I caught all my ass whoopins out in the wild like savage.Although when I dropped out of college I did have to get mouthy because I knew I would never hear the end of it. "What the fuck to you know, your fucking stupid, really setting the world on fire huh". I still feel bad to this day.
>>510052903Well said and fully agree.
>>510052562Do ONLY one mad here is YOU, anon, because deep down you know that you're soft. I'd ask your faggot ass have you ever even thrown hands with your brothers but I'm guessing you don't have any by the way you carry yourself.
>>510051752>>510051962he died of an aneurysm less than two years later and I was left to care for my BPD gen x hare-brained mom
He won that fight in the end. If I hadn't broken his spirit he'd be the guy carrying his wife to bed instead of me losing my 20s being a father to what's supposed to be my mother
>>510053020>i was an asshole. i got the belt at least a dozen times a year and deserved it everytime. Bro this is not an anime, I don't care about your backstory, I can't read any further than this. I'm sorry
>>510053027Who cares he could be making it all up or more likely he's just leaving out every bit of the story which doesn't make him feel "tough".
>>510053061Nope, no brothers, but if I did have any I'd bet I wouldn't have to throw hands with them either, because I'm not a dumb illiterate inbred faggot retard offspring that finds moral and virtue from fighting his own kin
Sorry bro ;(
>>510036516Dad never helped me regulate my emotions and he was a bit of rageaholic
I brewed with the constant arguments and shutting down but not really calming down until one day I tackled him, we broke a few furniture, I was like 13-15.
He never cared for what I had to say, until it got so bad I got violent.
>>510053294Oh you sweet summer child.
>>510053027>Hi, I'm arguing about the fact he's dumb faggot retard if he fought his parents, especially in the context of it being "natural", which he disagreed with.kek
picrel, what is it? You're the one acting like a feature of human existence isn't normal. Read the thread faggot, clearly it's MUCH more common than you know and you're the different one here.
I'm genuinely surprised by the amount of anons saying they physically fought their parents. Sure arguments and disagreements happened, but I would never lay my hands on them. Sorry for you guys if you had shit parents. Damn.
>>510036259 (OP)12.
I threatened to hit my mother back if she touched us kids again. I actually threatened her that I didn't care what happened to me, but that I would inflict maximum pain on her and I was ready for it.
That was enough and she never touched us again. (I was an alpha kid, the one who gets picked first in school sports because that always meant win.)
>>510036516White trash moment. My dad trusted me, even after I had proven myself to get into some dumb shit, because he knew my heart and watched me change into a better young man. The amount of freedom they gave me my entire life is pretty insane. I'd go bike riding on the highway in front of our house for 20+mi every day throughout the summer as a young teen & I never had to lie to them about where I'm going with the car (even at late hours) either. They just wanted to know where I was and roughly when I'd be back, so that they wouldn't have to worry or wonder.
I'd tell them I'm heading to a party at midnight and they wouldn't flinch. I'd tell them I'm picking friends up from a party at 2am and they'd just say "Okay. Be safe!" They gave me plenty of responsibilities and I always showed up and exceeded expectations with them. That stuff goes a hell of a long way with earning your father's trust and respect, which means infinitely more than his love.
>>510042014Sorry, but fighting is only natural to the sub-median IQ males. You ever met the types of dudes that are in prison cause they can't control themselves and fight regularly? They're not the sharpest knife in the drawer. It's also the same reason niggers, beaners, and white trash fight a lot. You basically just exposed that you're low IQ.
>inb4 "you're just low test bro"My bloodline is raging with testosterone and has been for as far back generationally as I can go. We bald early, grow full facial hair, have a non-existent refractory period, and build muscle without even trying. Most dudes get ED by 30. That's laughable to anyone related to me.
>>510053294>only childBlimey
Now I just feel bad for you. You're after rocking into this bread thinking you know something about the human experience and you know absolutely nothing.
>>510053366>"I will not have my glory taken by a stone."The thread.
>>510053294Lol dude. Bless your soul.
>>510036259 (OP)>Age 18 >Dad just got out of hospital from TBI (traumatic brain injury)>Be at home with best friend>Dad start talking hot shit about my buddy (we've been friends since we were 9yrs old. We both 32 now)>Tell him to quit >Bucks up to me>I've had it at this point years of sexual abuse when I was a child and further abuse into my teens>Start punching his face in throw him to the ground>Friend pulls me off>Call mom explain what happened>Mom comes homes SCREAMING at him>Mom: "You need to start respecting your son if you want a relationship with him! I'm not dealing with this if you won't treat him like an adult! You're 64yrs old acting like a damn child!"That was the first instance
>Now 22>Best friend is over we're doing yard work >Mom is outside my bro too>Dad tries yelling about how were doing it wrong>tell him to shut up we're working>bucks up to me again>Hellnahnigga.jpg>Grab him by the shirt throw him to the ground and start pummeling his face in>Friend pulls me off after he's bloodied up>Mom tells me he earned it>Tell my dad, "if you keep fighting me one of these times I'm going to end your fucking life old man. Quit it! NOW!" >Haven't fought since then.
>>510052283I got into a fight with my dad later in life and I regretted it afterwards with every fiber of my being, wished I would have just kept my mouth shut and deescalated, wellingtons the next worse feeling to a battle lost is a battle won but on a personal level beyond seeing friends lost for a victory
>>510036516Oh, good.grief!
Your dad is a Jew so he would avoid jailtime if even if you told police (also jews).
If only every son had the trauma you went through there would be peace everywhere
>>510053633 checked
Life is an abrasive wheel, Some let it grind them down and others use it to polish them up.
>>510053536It honestly kinds worries me, I never thought there were so many inbred losers on 4chan that had to fight their family because they were also lovers.
Idk, I don't really care, sorry you all had shit experiences you thought should be normal
I never stood up to my dad. I still think about it. There were moments where I could sense that it was time, but I always averted my eyes from his challenging stare.
I did stand up to my mom though. All I had to do was raise my hand and she stopped. She never put hands on me again after that, but before she would pinch and scratch and do all kinds of horrible shit.
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>>510053838Guess i was just raised that way.
>>510053897>effeminate castrated 'male' coping due to his lack of initiation and doomed never to be a manMany such cases. Sad.
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>>510036259 (OP)When I was 15 I finally got fed up with my parents not understanding how I felt about the world and societal pressures. They were trying to force me down a career and life path I did not want or need. Eventually an argument with my mother spiraled and I punched her square in the face and broke her nose. When my dad came home he stormed upstairs to my room and confronted me and in the middle of his yelling I kicked him as hard as I could in his balls and hit him with the hardest punch I have ever thrown to the side of his face. Broke one of his teeth and shut him up immediately. For the next 2 years they were terrified of me. After that time passed though they suddenly became kind, nurturing and actually acted like parents that gave a shit about my well being. 20 years later and I could say I have the perfect relationship with them and love them both dearly. No regrets.
>>510053897if you haven't experienced any shit in your life, you may well 'woke up' and think the world really is a rainbow pony farm.
that's why there will be an above-average number here because faggots who live under the rainbow become rainbows themselves - so left-wing redditors, less 4chan right-wingers
>>510054322and everyone clapped
THE END.
>>510036516Thatโs the most white trash nonsense Iโve ever heard
>>510054581Boy, you are in for a BIG surprise when you scroll down & read the bread.
>>510036259 (OP)I think 3 maybe. My mom told me it was nap time, I disagreed. She put me in my room and turned off the light. I got out of bed, stood on a little toy hard hat and turned the light back on. I couldn't open the door because they had some child proof spinning bull shit on it so I stood on my hard hat and screamed obscenities. I didn't know many so it was just me screaming "SHIT, ASS, and BITCH" over and over. She eventually got pissed enough that she came and grabbed me and washed my mouth out with a bar of soap. She asked me if I was ready to take a nap and I just said no. She said fine wait till your dad gets home. So I sat in the hallway until he got home.
I expected to get the shit beat out of me but he just came in and asked why I didn't want to take a nap. I told him I was too old for naps. He just looked at my mom and said "I guess he's done with naps" and walked away while she cried.
>>510054581โChildren now love luxury; they show bad behavior, contempt for authority, disrespect for elders ... they contradict their parents, gossip in front of guests, gobble up treats and lord it over their teachers.โ
A quote from Socrates, ~420 BC
There is no century that does not have a record of the elderly scolding the young.
11.
Raised my hands in self defense and swung at her after years of letting it happen and taking numerous blows to the face.
She ran out of the house, hopped in the car, went to the store and bought like 35$ worth of hygiene products and dropped me off at my dad's, she's still insane and I gave up completely at age 32 of anything whatsoever to do with that dumpster fire of a family.
>>510036767My dad's a piece of shit who's actions for me targeted by law enforcement as a Kid,
As an adult he deliberately sabotaged me and fucked me over in business affairs where I came down to open a company.
>Hilarious cause had he not I would have given him a place to live.Then most recent interaction I tried to get my brother a job, so he took it upon himself to stay up late, make noise and create a situation where anon can't go to work.
I am bootfucking him when I go home next, and if (you) want to put handcuffs on me over it, after the years of persecution, its game on.
>Be kid.>Tell him to go fuck himself.>Haha,>Haha your real funny anon>Takes me and my older brother out innawoods.>Gives us boxing gloves.>Tells us it's two of us versus his friend.>Sits back and chuckles.Gotta give credit where credit is due, based.
>>510036516I wouldn't have been able to control myself and I would have beat his ass to death.
>>510044433Anon, abandon them and just leave.
Seriously. Save up a few bucks and move two streets over, stop paying all bills and just let them rot.
>>510045538>now I help build homes for people who lose them in disasters.Happy to know there's more frens doing what we do
t. Builds houses for people who were genocide by the RCMP and Catholic Church.
As a white person in servitude, I renounce all colonial guilt associated with being Canadian.
>510036259
I'm White and was raised in a normal household where i learned very early why they were doing what they were doin, I'm sorry rajesh you just lost at the hospital both genetically and family wise.
>>510036259 (OP)Things never went beyond verbal after a certain age where ass whooping was not appropriate (around after 14-15). It's one thing to fight someone outsider and another to hit your own parents. That is a hard line to cross, a point of no return. I'd probably been beaten like a horse if it ever came to that, I'd do the same to my own kid desu (assuming I had one).
No personal insults either, or at least keeping it tame. It's a manners/class thing, to remain civil at all times possible.
>>510044433>>510055568This is what happens when things fester and it's not dealt with at the appropriate time. In our over socialized time it sounds barbaric to the r*dditors here to square up to the ol' man & then go at it but it's not, it's a rite of passage. Don't get me wrong, you should discipline children and not beat them but males absolutely do need their rites of passage. Beating your kids is not the most effective nor efficient way to go about it. There's way better and more controlled ways but if it's happening to you by a parent not equipped to be one when he became one then it's a case of when life gives you lemons then best to make lemonade.
By the way, that ol' man who used to beat fuck out of me until I finally put him on his ass - he was tough so it took more than one occasion - he took AstraZeneca covid jab and is now legally blind. I'm now his carer. See how that worked out? Funny aul world, ain't it.
>>510036259 (OP)Just saved this a couple days ago. Relevant.
>>510056365Abandon him anon.
It's based as fuck to make your oldan homeless. I'm taking mine down to the homeless shelter after I kick his ass and making it clear to him he's homeless and his shit is being placed outside.
Might drop him off in a city and proscribe banishment as a punishment. Still undecided.
>>510056365It's funny you mention this because I personally know kid that wrestles with my son. His dad is a Manlet but his son is kind of big for his age. 12 years old and 130lbs, tall... His dad can't discipline him anymore. And he's turning into an absolute shitstain. Used to be a good kid. But now that he's outgrown his dad... they got into an argument and apparently he broke his dads arm and sent him to the hospital.
Poor lad.
>Better than a leftist single mom, though.
>>510056365See
>>510052271>Enough?>I was born into foster care.>My parents were the state. Ain't no saying "enough" to the state.
>>510056644 checked
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Nah, man, believe it or not I forgive him but he's still my abrasive wheel and he is always finding new ways to test me. Catholics have a saying: The one person who really rubs you up the wrong way, they're who was sent by God to make you a saint.
He's not just my da, he's my saint maker.
>>510055039Didn't those guys fuck young boys?
>"Little Caesar had the audacity to bite down on my penis as I was teaching him how to properly service a man... Children these days..."
>>510055568>>510056365With browns they don't have much of a choice. Every brown family is like this and there is no room for cultural critique to change things. What's he gonna do? Try and cozy up to native whites? He leaves his brown background and he's shot out info the universe as singular atom incapable of forming bonds
>>510036259 (OP)I started fucking my dad as a show of dominance probably by the age of 13. I made sure to do it in front of my mom and my siblings.
Everyone knew where I stood: in the kitchen with poop on my dick.
>>510056230>Joe dirtOne of the funniest movies ever. I can't believe it hasn't taken its rightful place as a classic.
when I realised I'm stronger than my mom. there were times I did stupid things, like almost all kid, and because of it she tried to beat me. I remember she would try to slap my face but I grabbed her wrists and she couldn't, all this while I was laughing and she bursting of rage lol.
I grew up living with my grandpa and uncle, dad was never present, so they fulfilled the father role. none of them ever did nothing beyond some scoldings or impose their authority over me.
>>510057032>didn't Americans all date rape each other with medicated baby oil? Didn't they all go to Epstien island and fuck kids too? the perversions of the so-called "elites" of any era do not represent the moral character of the masses. I highly doubt the average ancient Greek, who mainly had kids because he needed them to work, treated or allowed his children (aka essential workers) to be treated as sex chattel by other men.
>>510036259 (OP)Ass slapping needs to come back.
>>510057138Based. Next time she makes dinner throw it on the floor before your dad can.
>>510056477>That whole storyWhite liberal homes and their byproducts are a different kind of psychological/socialogical torture.
That Mulatto boy is going to grow up and kill everyone in that family.
>>510057032>Didn't those guys fuck young boys?No, that's kike propaganda, rabbi memeflagbergsteinowitz.
>>510055039Almost all centuries do not have a record of that, you lying faggot. "Something happened 2500 years ago, that means it isn't happening now!111" is the most preddit brained idiocy imaginable.
>>510036516No, the problem is that boomers like you are going to die alone. Not in an old folks home, because that would imply kids in your life who cared enough to put you in with nigger nurses, just totally alone when you fall in the shower and no one will notice for weeks until your cousin steve who is 10 years younger calls up looking for you for whatever reason and realizes you're finally dead.
>>510042014I forgot there were indians in South Africa. Shut up jeet.
>>510045125>parents are huge assholes to their children, get meek when they get oldYeah that's how it always is with narcissist boomers.
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>>510036259 (OP)>mfw I joined the Navy and didn't have to see or speak to my cunt of a mother for 8 years[spoiler]The first time I saw her since I left was at my father's wake[/spoiler]
>>510036516shut up boomer you gonna die soon
>>510036259 (OP)i did get whippings, and by 20 or so i told them to fuck off. i love my parents but sometimes you have to love certain people from afar.
>>510036259 (OP)I like my dad was I supposed to fight him?
>>510036944I havenโt spoken to mine in 20.
>>510036259 (OP)My sister stole some cash from my parents, and handed it to me saying to keep it a secret. Mind you I was 5 so I had no clue what was going on. Before I knew it my Dad was furious and discovered the cash on me. He proceeded to put me on stomach and belt my back. I still have the scars...
>>510060672>trusting a femoid>albeit a young oneLol. Failed the shit test.
>>510057772>That Mulatto boy is going to grow up and kill everyone in that family.Probably accurate.
>>510036516Accurate. My dad was 6'5", 225 lbs and boxed in his youth. I was 6'8" and 190 lbs of pure hate at the time. Slipped a jab, caught him in the jaw with a quick lead hook, and loaded up on the mother of all haymakers. He fucking ended me with a hook to the body. Holy shit. I think I was 15 or 16 at the time, never been hit that hard in my life. Directly in the liver, didnt see it coming at all, and I just crumpled. My entire body shut down and I was on the ground moaning and writhing in pain. Grabbed me by the hair, called me a punk ass bitch, left me on the basement floor, came back with a beer, and we talked it out like gentleman. It's just a rite of passage.
My father has a collection of knives from people who tried to kill him.
If I went any further giving details about him, you'd think I'm making it up.
Not that he was a bad person, it's just his friends starting shit because he's there.
It's unheard of, kids beating their parents, I'm sure it happens behind closed doors if the father is horrible, a push back is totally normal.
I was a top wrestler in h.s. and completely ripped. Ma made soft cookies and told me I could have one before dinner but no more. I took three and mashed them into one large cookie. Ma took a wooden spoon and struck me with her full might until the spoon shattered. By then I couldn't stop laughing. She grabbed an even bigger wooden implement and I shrieked with giggling and bouts of laughter until that thing brokke too. Pretty soon ma was SOL stuff to beat me with because it was all smashed on me and was using her fists and legs. I made it a point to grab more cookies at that moment and casually eat what I wanted, laughing. I left the kitchen when I was ready and took a nice shower.She has never raised her voice to me or tried any other form of discipline since. She realizes I could kill her in twenty seconds without expending any effort whatsoever. I've removed her from my life now and she'll never have any contact with her grandchildren, not ever. Bwahahahahaaah! /no joke
I screamed at my mother at age 13 and stopped her from hitting me cuz she felt stressed that day and I forgot to clean my room. From then on she and my sister started to gaslight me calling me a coward and daring me to hit them.
I did hit my sister several times cuz
>we were 1 year apart
>she used violence all the time, also stole my things constantly
So yeah, my mom in not evil or anything, but at ages 50-52 she acted like most women do, emotionally bursting into fits of anger, then playing the victim.
>inb4, no, dad was not around
>>510053897I always knew there were but they were never so proud of it before.
>>510036516Well my father was a mentor and actually loved me so I never felt any need to attack him over anything
>>510036259 (OP)When I was 4 I had an abnormally large penis, and my my mother would often jerk it and show it to people. After a few years of this I told her to knock it off.
>>510063529Well congrats on being well adjusted. My dad loved me too, saw like 80% of my basketball games, we have a great relationship now, always talk sports. But when I was younger I was a cocky mouthy faggot and constantly got in screaming matches. One day it escalated and our relationship afterwards was never better. It's just something that needs to vent sometimes. I assume my kid will try to fight my hulking shrek looking ass too, and I'll grab him by his belt, then dump him on his head with a judo throw from hell. Afterwards, we'll share a beer, as god intended.
>>510047725Sounds like you are my russian brother. Same experience at same age but I cut off the trickery when I was 25. Looking back I was foolish to keep it going for so long and kind of hoped he would finally accept he had made mistakes, apologize and change. But you can't hold out hope for years. Need to set clear boundaries for parents or those types will overwhelm you.
>>510051336The guy who's got all the money to show for it.
Ain't dad.
Go be tough in the hen house kid.
>>510036259 (OP)If you have to fight your parents, you are low tier pleb. If you have a problem with them, just leave and let them be to their own destiny.
They voted for it.
>>510036259 (OP)Probably around 16 or so when I started lifting
I beat my older brother and told my dad to take the first punch and he wouldn't so that's when the physical discipline/bullying stopped
>>510057772>That Mulatto boy is going to grow up and kill everyone in that family.And nothing of value was lost.
>>510036516>I suspect the problem with zoomer and millenial males is they never had that coming of age fist fight with their fathers the rest of us went through.I'm an actual ethnic white man and don't have any daddy issues, so you're right I can't relate to the typical mulatto/taco goblin experience.
>>510036516i punched my dad in the mouth and busted his lip when i was around 8 yrs old
regretted it ever since