>>81858932
For once I actually kind of feel bad for a woman on this board. If breaking it off isn't option, I'd recommend casualizing sex and sexual things into being "normal" and "comfortable" by pushing non-sex boundaries (ex. groping) assertively and making sure you are undoubtedly confidently 100% very attractive (so that him feeling a disgust response would just be being gay/mentally ill). If you have even the least bit chub lose it, make sure to dress cute, have long well-groomed hair, show some skin, it's unfortunately up to you to solve this, and long-term "not having sex" really is not an option.