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6/27/2025, 7:03:31 AM
>>40192685
What you are describing is dysphoria, love. That fear of masculanizing? That can be a huge part of things.
Everyone's dysphoria looks different and comes feels different. I repped for a long fucking time because my dysphoria centered on social aspects and missed experiences, which was very easy to ignore -- especially with a late and weak puberty that left me looking like a kinda girly dude.
Try not to philosophize too much about the correct way to be. The only incorrect decision for transitioning is repression (and even then, is justifiable if your life situation makes transitioning dangerous).
Have you considered the possibility that you may be a femme presenting NB or demigirl?
Like, womanhood and femininity is its own spectrum just as transness is. You dont have to try to cut your bits off as a kid to be trans (trust me, that is an awful experience...) and you dont have to be hyper feminine to be a woman, either. Its okay to like your masculine traits, too. (I love being a tall lady, but actually shrunk between HRT and a massive lower back injury QQ)
Like, focus less on the why and more on what makes you feel better. Thats the important thing.
What you are describing is dysphoria, love. That fear of masculanizing? That can be a huge part of things.
Everyone's dysphoria looks different and comes feels different. I repped for a long fucking time because my dysphoria centered on social aspects and missed experiences, which was very easy to ignore -- especially with a late and weak puberty that left me looking like a kinda girly dude.
Try not to philosophize too much about the correct way to be. The only incorrect decision for transitioning is repression (and even then, is justifiable if your life situation makes transitioning dangerous).
Have you considered the possibility that you may be a femme presenting NB or demigirl?
Like, womanhood and femininity is its own spectrum just as transness is. You dont have to try to cut your bits off as a kid to be trans (trust me, that is an awful experience...) and you dont have to be hyper feminine to be a woman, either. Its okay to like your masculine traits, too. (I love being a tall lady, but actually shrunk between HRT and a massive lower back injury QQ)
Like, focus less on the why and more on what makes you feel better. Thats the important thing.
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