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7/26/2025, 3:42:52 AM
>>33411978
Anon there are people out there who don't "start" their life until their 30s. Realistically you have a good 3+ decades left to enjoy your youth before your age becomes a serious problem.
Losing contact with your highschool friends is EXTREMELY common even among normies. I can count the people I know who are still connected to their high school friends on one hand, and it's always one person. It's just a fact of life, you hung out with them because you spent a lot of time in the same place, now that you don't anymore you've drifted apart. You will have to find new friends. That's just being an adult.
Living with your parents in your late teens and 20s is very common too. Housing is simply too expensive for the average person nowadays.
Basically you are still young as fuck and have nothing to worry about. The only thing you can do is not beat yourself up over common life experiences and focus on opening up as a person. It's not a process that happens overnight, take it as slow as you want, but try to make the effort to socialize. Even if it's just a small talk with one person. You can build on it.
I would try to cut down on cigarettes and weed if you can though. Cigarettes in particular. There's plenty of other people like you who have an addiction that leads to self-loathing. You could join an addiction group and use that as an excuse to socialize. Think of it as an incentive.
Anon there are people out there who don't "start" their life until their 30s. Realistically you have a good 3+ decades left to enjoy your youth before your age becomes a serious problem.
Losing contact with your highschool friends is EXTREMELY common even among normies. I can count the people I know who are still connected to their high school friends on one hand, and it's always one person. It's just a fact of life, you hung out with them because you spent a lot of time in the same place, now that you don't anymore you've drifted apart. You will have to find new friends. That's just being an adult.
Living with your parents in your late teens and 20s is very common too. Housing is simply too expensive for the average person nowadays.
Basically you are still young as fuck and have nothing to worry about. The only thing you can do is not beat yourself up over common life experiences and focus on opening up as a person. It's not a process that happens overnight, take it as slow as you want, but try to make the effort to socialize. Even if it's just a small talk with one person. You can build on it.
I would try to cut down on cigarettes and weed if you can though. Cigarettes in particular. There's plenty of other people like you who have an addiction that leads to self-loathing. You could join an addiction group and use that as an excuse to socialize. Think of it as an incentive.
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