>>81939937
Funnily enough I'm in a similar situation. A girl I met last summer ghosted me about 3 months ago. She's pretty anxious avoidant and ghosted me multiple times before. She would always eventually message me and tell me it was due to anxiety. I can also experience pretty bad anxiety (not checking uni email for months, not emailing professor about late assignment due to death in family for months, not checking uni grades for months, etc.) so I believe that she really did ghost me due to anxiety. She's never ghosted me for this long before though.

It's really frustrating being treated this way. If this happened once I could just assume she no longer wanted to talk to me but because she's done this before I have no idea what's going on.

I'm trying my best to communicate with her but sometimes it's impossible. When she goes full avoidant she'll log out of accounts and turn off notifications (which just makes her anxiety worse).

I wish she would at least tell me she didn't want to talk anymore. That would be preferable to eternal ghosting.

I hate to admit it, but it's really negatively affected me. I've been having trouble staying motivated to do uni and internship stuff and I've even stopped going to the gym. If it was just this I was dealing with I'd probably be able to function better but I also have a few other things going on.

I stg some higher power is trying to end me sending all this stuff my way.