Women like to tell themselves "he settled for less. He couldn't get me." However Asian women call that into question. She doesn't like the idea that maybe she settled for some ugly deadbeat shitskin with teenager's IQ level while the white man got a princess with an IQ a whole standard deviation above her shitskin bf. "Maybe he is happier than me" says the white woman, "no man is allowed to be happier than me, without me. They must suffer."