>>40226584
everything has a solution anon. ignore some of these hateful anons.

either you take the christpill accept your biological gender and pray the gay away permanently (not recommended but might be necessary if you are surrounded by conservatives) or:

> nearly 30
people transition at 20, 30, 40 even 50. many of them won't look like supermodels, but rather a female normie version of themselves at that age. this is important because it will set the right expectations on what transition does: it will not turn you into hunter schafer or something

> severely balding
look up hair loss resources, wear a wig if hair loss is irreversible

> full beard
shave, laser to get rid of it. medical

> put on a lot of weight
> alcoholic
stop drinking, go to AA meetings, earlier you stop drinking the easier it will be to stop drinking. it's time to face your problems face on. you also will need the money if you go this route. in fact even if you dont transition, stop drinking anyway to save money and your health too

> There's no way someone like me could ever pass as female. I am a distinctly male and disgusting creature.
gender dysphoria, sorry sweetie. God, just hates you and wants you to suffer. luckily there are ways to resolve that on earth: gender affirming counselling, HRT or more invasive methods etc. not perfect, but for some, it is enough to keep the gender demons away from clawing at their soul.

>>40183915
yeah probably if my hypothetical partner and i can jump the legal and bureaucratic loop, the pain is still there though and will always be there for me though