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They haven't even bothered entertaining a little introspection, and realizing they have a fear of intimacy.
Instead of consciously acknowledging their inability to conquer their childhood fear of abandonment (an adult.
Fear of intimacy is always born as a childhood fear of abandonment) they actually fool themselves into thinking other people proceed them as being " sexually superior", as if the fake football shit or any other fake fetish is considered 'sex'...
They never think it all the way through, because obviously FEET HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX...
Bondage and discipline have nothing to do with sex
Wearing cheesy fashion trends, black rubber clothing and whips THAT'S NOT SEX
FETISHES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX
And everything to do with DISTRACTION
STALLING....
AVOIDING....
DELAYING... and hopefully
ELIMINATING any possibility of uncomfortable intimacy

see?.... those are the exact same words.I was saying when my future wife stumbled into the thread

Perhaps <You didn't catch my question earlier: HOW DID YOU MEET YOUR WIFE?

I'm certain you also have an interesting little story about the first time you met your wife?