>>40086076
Oh geez, what kind of pool is so fucking anal about clothing beyond, "don't wear your street clothes in?" Starting to understand why you feel issues. Maybe start by doing it on a trip to another area, since the odds are they will be much more chill than wherever you are specifically.
The hair being gross is something I just kinda dealt with. The pool I liked was a 2.5 hour bus ride away (a single bus, just phenomenally shitty road) and it was miserable waiting to get home and wash up properly.