is anyone else online creating content and completely stealth? how do you handle the cis men in your dm?

>be me gigapassoid
>never telling ppl im trans
>downside risk is too great
>audience mostly men
>post selfies
>post videos
>do live streams
>otherwise a woman
>men confess love
>ignore
>good men confess love
>feel the pull
>they start being transphobic
>know i can never reveal
>know if i did they'd out me
>no one to talk to
>completely alone
>mfw

what should I do if I am a boymoder but people say I am too feminine to boymode?