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6/16/2025, 7:20:14 PM
>>40075070
Agreed :(
I actually hate thinking about how whatever this is has negatively impacted all areas of my life.
>>40075022
>start considering being
Dear god no. I’d be a fucking manlet. I think I’d do it if I was taller. Or maybe if I was taller I’d have less dysphoria.
>medical transition first or social transition first?
Lol, I’m already “socially transitioned” it’s not really a choice it’s just how I am. I think the concept is kinda stupid and rooted in gender rolls. Women should and can do all the shit men do. Intentionally picturing myself as a guy might be helpful though. I hadn’t thought of that.
My therapist told me it was easy to talk to me because I act like a guy. Thankfully he didn’t believe in trans-shit so he didn’t push me in the direction of that.
>What d you mean by this?
While there is some leeway here and there… There is not a lot. You run into a alls with other woman when you’re basically a guy even if you present/look fem. Guys might like and accept tomboys for whatever reason, but other women don’t. I was bullied by my female teachers growing up for being the way I am and facing outright hostility or them trying to “correct” it. As an adult I mostly just face isolation a lot. I wish I could just be myself around other woman and be accepted.
At one point in time I got into pick up artist shit. And it really hurt my perception of myself because I had to wear this really fake mask/version of myself in order for other woman to want anything to do with me. Sometimes even if I was with someone I really liked/clicked with and it became more than a hook up it wouldn’t last when I started to drop my mask. Imagine you’re trying to date some savant and they end up acting more like Toph from Avatar when you get to know them. I can’t blame them.
Agreed :(
I actually hate thinking about how whatever this is has negatively impacted all areas of my life.
>>40075022
>start considering being
Dear god no. I’d be a fucking manlet. I think I’d do it if I was taller. Or maybe if I was taller I’d have less dysphoria.
>medical transition first or social transition first?
Lol, I’m already “socially transitioned” it’s not really a choice it’s just how I am. I think the concept is kinda stupid and rooted in gender rolls. Women should and can do all the shit men do. Intentionally picturing myself as a guy might be helpful though. I hadn’t thought of that.
My therapist told me it was easy to talk to me because I act like a guy. Thankfully he didn’t believe in trans-shit so he didn’t push me in the direction of that.
>What d you mean by this?
While there is some leeway here and there… There is not a lot. You run into a alls with other woman when you’re basically a guy even if you present/look fem. Guys might like and accept tomboys for whatever reason, but other women don’t. I was bullied by my female teachers growing up for being the way I am and facing outright hostility or them trying to “correct” it. As an adult I mostly just face isolation a lot. I wish I could just be myself around other woman and be accepted.
At one point in time I got into pick up artist shit. And it really hurt my perception of myself because I had to wear this really fake mask/version of myself in order for other woman to want anything to do with me. Sometimes even if I was with someone I really liked/clicked with and it became more than a hook up it wouldn’t last when I started to drop my mask. Imagine you’re trying to date some savant and they end up acting more like Toph from Avatar when you get to know them. I can’t blame them.
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