>>83045234
everything you're saying is true, but it doesn't change the fact that the dating pool of straight men has far less diversity than that of any other sexuality+gender. The variability hypothesis wins again I guess

>>83045238
the average man isn't just imperfect, he's completely insufficient, sexually. This is evidenced by the epidemic of dead bedrooms you can see today
>Do men get their ideal type in relationships or marriages?
no, but the average married man is significantly more attracted to his wife than she is to him, and this causes issues, both at the personal level and at the societal level

>>83045265
most men will probably find a 35 year old woman less attractive than a 25 year old woman, but she's still viewed as a woman, as a sexual being
a submissive or even neutral man is viewed as a sexless eunuch by the vast majority of women

it makes me immensely sad to know that i will never be loved for who i am
i hate having to change or suppress parts of myself in order to appeal to others
i wish i could just not care and live in solitude