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I'm glad that it ended well (I'm just assuming here, but it doesn't sound like it ended on awful terms or like.. screaming or whatever). And you're absolutely right lol, I'm very much a go getter when I want to be but even if I don't my chart ruler (Pluto) forces me to go through transformative experiences and learn from them. Maybe I could help you out with figuring out what to do with that aspect if you're cool with dropping your chart.
As for me and my... I think he and I are gonna be okay, it's just scarily vulnerable for me and I'm gonna have to force myself to stop being my own worst enemy which is difficult for me. I critique and torture myself so much that such energy oozes off onto my loved ones. Something something you can take the horse to the water but you can't force it to drink