I first had sex when I was 22. Don't worry man. You've got this. What you need to understand is that the same way you see 2/10 nasty girls and don't even think twice about having sex with them. Women see men in the same vein. You need to work on your sex appeal, your style, your confidence and the way you approach the situation. I think that you don't understand how women operate (which is usual for the average 21 year old regular guy). Based on how you speak here you seem fairly based. Nothing makes a woman dryer than a based dude. (Usually!) Now this isn't a knock on being based. By all means continue your basedness until you become chad himself.

In the meantime however, you must work with what you have available to you. You need to become a yes man. In a sense. Don't just say yes to literally everything but think before you speak. Agree with things women would want you to agree with. This might be their liberal whatever. Their naive female mindsets. Etc whatever. It doesn't matter. Just go along with it until you get laid and then let your true personality unfold. Or, keep it going like that.

Maybe lower your standards as well. Work on not being nervous and not having anything to say. Only really cool dudes get away with not saying shit on a date and being silent. You need to be confident in your small talk abilities and your ability to maintain a conversation with a woman without sperging out in any way, forever.

God speed nigger