Trying to explain why having kids is so incredible to someone without kids is like trying to explain colors to a blind person

Can't be done, person without kids simply won't get it. If someone has kids and they're a miserable faggot about it, at least you can speak with them in common parlance. But explaining kids to a late 20's or 30's millennial is not even worth trying. They just won't get it until they're had kids