>>717085926
The first book of the Drizzt series, Homeland, when he's still living in Menzoberranzan, does a pretty good job of describing their society from the viewpoint of someone within it. For all the shit the males get put through, arguably the females get it worse, as they're beaten down and indoctrinated from birth until they're absolutely ruthless and twisted. They have to be to keep control over all the males and slaves over which they have dominion, who would rise up in an instant if they showed weakness. That is if another House didn't take them out first.