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I think feminine features tend to be deemed more attractive personally, which you have, no offense I don't think that is a bad thing, some girls really dig it. I look like this nigga minus the nose ring (I do have earrings whatever call me gay idc) but taller and jacked, like benching nearly double my body weight strength, don't really care if that is attractive or not, I don't lift for looks, but I agree with your overall sentiment.
I think my strongest suit is just overall charisma, having a nice face and making girls laugh is a deadly combination, it is mindblowing the things they will overlook when extremely attracted, and I think masculinity is more and more sought after as everybody troons out these days. I was in the top fraternity (by members which kinda gives it away but it is also the oldest and original prototype for all future clones if you know the original secret order) and that let me interact with the hottest girls back when alpha phis were actually all blondes and no blacks. I think I've built my confidence with more 10s in those years than most dudes will in a lifetime, so those communication skills also play a role and you're right it isn't just beauty. My fraternity was like 99% white had some decent looking dudes too but almost every girl I hooked up with did so on the spot despite being in a longterm relationship, looks can open the door but carrying yourself with confidence is also necessary. People just sense it, not just women either, people can subconsciously sense how you feel about yourself in the way that you carry yourself. Everybody is an autist now tho it should be ez nowadays compared to the shit I had to do as an 18 year old pledge in college.