>>40030492
I understand, it's okay. The Internet is a big place, even though it can be very small sometimes. It sounds like I have a doppelganger! I think I can explain a few of these things, tho:
My particular career field has a lot of trans women and only has on base. The military tends to attract repressing trans women, so you wind up with a lot of former repressors who enlisted and were married/had kids condensed to one spot suddenly discovering themselves. Military can be isolating, so a lot of us probably explore on the Internet. Mix isolation, self discovery, and the tendency for both the mil and transness to break marriages and you wind up with a lot of babytrans with broken marriages trying to figure themselves out online living in the same general area.
As for the name... I dunno. I picked something that references the flaming ones from biblical literature because I want to reach a state of purity - and I also like this character who has an obvious nun aesthetic going on. Maybe your not-friend had similar aspirations?
Im very sorry my presence and background incensed you so. I wish I could have noticed sooner that something was wrong. I hope you did rest well.