>>513436388
Where's the novel, new experience though? Nobody wants to be vunerable and open themselves to up when she is talking to (and possibly fucking) any of a dozen other guys. The desire to put in *any* effort to a woman like this falls to zero. It's a joke.
Women when they hear about this, would say some bullshit like "oh well that's why you say at the start of the talking stage to be exclusive", as if that awkward, weird fucking conversation topic would even go over well at all. Seriously, imagine saying something that stupid on a first date.
It used to just be assumed but now I don't want to play "ultimate gf manager 2000" and live my own life at the same time. Not only that but you know there was some guy that put in zero effort and got it for nothing, further disincentivizing any effort.
This leads to having to behave like a psychopathic narcissist if you want to get laid and unless you actually are one, it's a fucking chore and when you've had sex a few times it's actually just depressing because you feel like you are using the woman to masturbate with. There's no deeper connection and you realize when you start to think you might feel one, "oh yeah, she's talking to other guys, so this isn't special, and why the fuck should I go to so much effort for this?"
You want to have novel, sweet nothing, pleasant experiences (and yes the occasional argument it's a relationship, sure). You don't want to have to put on the armor every day to please some perpetually cantankerous fuckwad who can torpedo your entire relationship any time they please and it's always your fault.
