>>507880777
>They don’t want a solution to their problems. They just want to bitch and feel bad about themselves
very, VERY true. When a woman comes to you with a problem, try giving them an objective assessment of the situation and see how it works out for you. The second that you mention the thought processes and motivations of other parties involved in the conflict, she will throw a fit. Women really don't like to be reminded that other people exist and that the world doesn't solely revolve around them.
Your woman doesn't want a solution, she just wants you to validate her actions and to hear, "everyone else was wrong and you are perfect." This is how they are and a big reason why they should never be given any type of exercise of authority. Imagine the destructive decisions that they would arrive at based on this extremely self-biased logic.