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I'm not sure what you're asking exactly, but I don't think you would want a boyfriend that watches porn (and masturbated) the same way you probably wouldn't want a boyfriend that smoked crack.
I agree it's a subject matter and inherently harmless, but the way it's being proliferated, especially to minors, and the way it latches onto your brains reward circuitry makes it a moot point really.
Doesn't matter though, because it's all about personal accountability at the end of the day. If you don't want to watch it, don't, if you do, be my guest. There is no real benefit from watching or even jacking off however. At this point there are mountains of real evidence showing how bad it fucks you up too, but you didn't ask for that so I'll spare you the details.
I would guess you take more issue with ultra religious guys who will go on a crusade to demonize videos of people fucking because they can't control themselves enough to not touch their dicks and insecure women who loathe the idea of their boyfriends looking at other women online. That's different.
But for me at least the thought process is very simple
>jacking off makes me feel like shit and takes energy away from pursuing actual sex
>therefore I will stop jacking off
That's about as deep as it should go. What other consenting adults do with their time and bodies doesn't really concern me, but as I said in the beginning, masturbating, as a guy at least I don't know if it's the same for women, only takes away from the sex you could be having with your (potential) gf.